Wow, my previous blog post about GUILT struck a nerve with people.
If you feel guilty about crossdressing or being transgender, then maybe you consider the whole thing a “curse”.
But I believe there are some amazing benefits to being a “two-spirit” person.
In this post, I want to share what I believe are the hidden benefits of crossdressing or being transgender.
Some of these apply more to crossdressers, but the sentiment is the same: Being TG can make you a better person overall – in girl mode AND guy mode.
The Top 10 Hidden Benefits of Crossdressing or Being a Transgender Woman
1. It allows you to integrate the best of both genders into your personality.
2. It motivates you to stay in shape and take care of yourself. (A girl’s gotta look good, right?)
3. It makes you more empathetic towards women.
4. It brings you closer to the people who support you.
5. It’s easier to be faithful when *you* are the other woman (though I hope your empathy towards women would prevent you from cheating in the first place!).
6. It allows you to get to know yourself in a deep and meaningful way.
7. It makes you an interesting person. (Normal is boring!)
8. It gives you more compassion towards others who don’t fit the norms of society.
9. It offers a healthy and non-destructive way to relieve stress.
10. It makes you a more creative, resourceful, and courageous person than you might be otherwise.
So what do you think? Am I missing anything on this list?
I’d love to hear what YOU feel are the hidden benefits of crossdressing or being a TG woman.
Please leave me a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
I was married many years to a very loving and supportive lady and “dressed” to some degree almost every day. We enjoyed our girlfriend time and became much closer as a result. However when reading #5 (faithfulness) it struck me that although I know she enjoyed our relationship, I always suspected that she knew I wasn’t likely to stray while wearing panties and having a shaven body.
I always liked women’s clothes, specially lingerie. My fiancé kinda noticed that and began buying me panties,hose and garters for our own little sex parties. We both get very turned on by it. At 56 I really like wearing the wigs because I can have whatever hair I want, wich is awsome to a bald guy. It’s very apparent that I was always a crossdresser because it brings back fantacies that I had as a young boy.
I let go of all anxiety and become excited when I begin to dress or shave my legs. So much fun with my new wife because she really supports it.
One of the benefits of being a cross dresser is that you can lose your everyday life full of stress and anxiety and leave it all behind you while you become your feminine self.
A person who has control of her life without any of the problems of your everyday life
You can be any kind of girl that you want to be
It’s wonderful being the person you always dreamed of being as a child.
I love being feminine in every way, from the shopping trips at the mall dressed as Catherine Nicole to having a burger locally and passing as the woman I am. The excitement for me is wearing high heels and hearing that sound as I walk. Carrying my shoulder bag lends credence as to who I am. I love putting on my make up, my bra, my panties and panty hose.
Gaining that measure of confidence makes me “the happiest woman” in the world and soon to be