There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
For crossdressers and transgender women, hair removal plays a big role in creating a feminine appearance. But when you’re dealing with lots of face or body hair, things can easily go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 MTF hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: Not Exfoliating
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and bikini area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. This helps get rid of dead skin cells that can trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes on Amazon.
It’s important to note that exfoliating immediately after hair removal can irritate the skin. Instead, it’s best to exfoliate either right before or a few days after the hair removal process.
Mistake #2: Forgetting to Moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, smooth skin, right?)
Pure aloe vera gel is a great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother.
Another option is to use an unscented lotion or body oil. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: Not Treating Ingrown Hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing your skin can help prevent future ingrown hairs. But what should you do about existing ingrown hair bumps?
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do. Resist the temptation of shaving over the ingrown hairs or attempting to extract them with a needle. These actions can lead to infections and scarring.
Instead, try using a specialized ingrown hair treatment like Tend Skin or PFB Vanish. These products are designed reduce razor bumps and ingrown hairs.
Mistake #4: DIY Hair Removal Gone Wrong
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it can be tempting to try to do them on your own.
However, be careful as some DIY hair removal techniques can lead to painful side effects if your technique isn’t perfect. Here are some pitfalls to watch out for:
Waxing – Mistakes to avoid
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Ouch!
If you still want to do it yourself, I recommend investing in a professional waxing treatment first, so you can observe and learn the proper techniques.
Laser hair removal – Mistakes to avoid
Home laser hair removal systems can save you a lot of money compared to professional treatments. However, it’s important to understand the risks (including burns, scars, and hyperpigmentation) if the devices are not used correctly.
Proceed with caution, take your time, and carefully follow the provided instructions.
Electrolysis – Mistakes to avoid
While there are some home electrolysis machines available, I do not recommend venturing down this path.
Performing electrolysis hair removal is a complex process, which is why professional electrologists are required to obtain licenses.
Not only are most home electrolysis machines unreliable, but there’s also a considerable risk of burning or scarring yourself. It’s best to consult a professional electrologist for this particular procedure.
Mistake #5: Going for the Biggest Bargain
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a provider for hair removal treatments.
Opting for an ultra-cheap price tag may result in a waxing service that leaves behind stray hairs or a laser treatment that yields patchy results. In the worst-case scenario, you could even end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
In conclusion
To achieve silky, soft, feminine skin, it’s crucial to avoid these common MTF hair removal mistakes. This is a major DO for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
Now that you’re aware of the don’ts to steer clear of, here are some articles that delve deeper into the topic of hair removal:
- Transgender Body Hair Removal – Which Method is Best for You?
- MTF Facial Hair Removal: Top 8 Ways To Remove Or Reduce Beard Hair
- Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works? (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
- Bikini Hair Removal Tips for Your Male to Female Transformation
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What are your preferred hair removal methods, and do you have any additional tips to share?
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Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille honey goodness I’m glad there’s a place to go and talk OMG I just love how I’m changing wow Lucille I’m amazed sweetie how much better I’m looking and I feel even better still I never imagined I could look so good maybe I’m not all that most likely just plain old me a little better wrapping just so my girlfriend likes it and she does she’s so positive and supportive and glad my breasts are growing I think we’re just going to enjoy each other so much I still don’t know when she wants to surprise me so who knows fairly soon I think getting closer everyday I’m so excited about it I feel my life is going to be very nice once she arrives things are going to be awesome I’m not sure how I’m so blessed with good things all around I’m finally the woman I’ve always been everything is going well all since I decided to transition I had to wait so long it seemed now 5 1/2 months later things couldn’t be much better for me thank you honey for all your help with my journey to be happy and myself Love MJ ❤
Is everyone that comments here from the states? I’m in the UK and need a friend x
People all over the world comments here. I am from India.
I started using Johnson and Johnson lavender baby shampoo instead of shaving cream. My skin is so sensitive and figured that if the shampoo is good for babies it might be good for me as well. And it works great I use a Harry shaver I found on line and baby shampoo and just love the way my whole body feels. I now have my wife shaving this way and she agrees that her legs never felt as smooth with anything else. Harry’s blades even last a longer any store boughten blade I have ever used. And for a girl like me that shaves her chest, legs, arms and face the longer a blade last the better.
I’ve seen the ads online for Harry’s but I thought it was probably a 2nd rate item. After your endorsement though, I may try it. Thanks, Lacy!
My wife and I used to use Schick 4 blades, tried hydro and we won’t go back. Just wish Harry’s would have more girly colors for us. I just bought two handles and bought I think 20 blades the first time. And my do they last for ever.
I used to rely on razors and epilating cream since they delivered the quickest results… But also the biggest rashes and ingrown hairs. After reading a thousand reviews and saving courage and money I got a Braun Silkepil 9 epilator . I can only say it’s probably the best 100$ I invested. The first time and /or if you let it all grow back it will be a bit more painful but with a 30 min daily routine it’ll look great.
Hi Everyone!
Wow! There is a lot of good information here and I appreciate all the tips you’ve all shared! I am envious of those who can dress year-round! I can only shave all over during the winter months as my family and friends expect to see hair on my legs when I wear shorts or swim trunks. So for a few months out of the year I just use an electric body groomer which works just fine. I keep hoping that as I get older (I’m 55) my body hair will thin out but so far hope isn’t working!
Thank you for the tips everyone! Best wishes to all!
KG
I have just finished a 10 session laser hair removal for my back, shoulders & neck. My beauty therapist said I’ve had great results. I also had a few stomach & chest laser sessions, the latest was last week, prior to that was September. Again the results were great – I didn’t need one until now 🙂
My next appointment will be in around 4-5 months just to see where I’m at.
I’m thinking of going for leg, armpit and junk laser – at the moment I have them waxed every 6 weeks
Sissy tammy 🙂
Hi girls!
Does anyone have experience with a prescription cream for facial hair removal called Vaniqa? It is expensive, but allegedly stunts facial hair growth within 4-8 weeks. It is not a permanent solution, but can then be applied more sparingly. Versus thousands for electrolysis pain and potential scarring, it seems like a better alternative. Would love any feedback if you have tried it.
hi i have laser on my face once a month as my facial hair has been reduced that much now that i only have a 10 minute seshion
i shave my face once every 3 days i epilate the body hair along with IPL once a month which i do myself along with my boyfriend’s help for the hard to reach area’s
but my HRT treatment has reduced my body hair a lot now
so they need far less attension
but also increased the hair growth on my head i would say its about 1 or 2 inches below my shoulders now.
take care
katie
xxx