There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
For crossdressers and transgender women, hair removal plays a big role in creating a feminine appearance. But when you’re dealing with lots of face or body hair, things can easily go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 MTF hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: Not Exfoliating
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and bikini area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. This helps get rid of dead skin cells that can trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes on Amazon.
It’s important to note that exfoliating immediately after hair removal can irritate the skin. Instead, it’s best to exfoliate either right before or a few days after the hair removal process.
Mistake #2: Forgetting to Moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, smooth skin, right?)
Pure aloe vera gel is a great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother.
Another option is to use an unscented lotion or body oil. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: Not Treating Ingrown Hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing your skin can help prevent future ingrown hairs. But what should you do about existing ingrown hair bumps?
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do. Resist the temptation of shaving over the ingrown hairs or attempting to extract them with a needle. These actions can lead to infections and scarring.
Instead, try using a specialized ingrown hair treatment like Tend Skin or PFB Vanish. These products are designed reduce razor bumps and ingrown hairs.
Mistake #4: DIY Hair Removal Gone Wrong
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it can be tempting to try to do them on your own.
However, be careful as some DIY hair removal techniques can lead to painful side effects if your technique isn’t perfect. Here are some pitfalls to watch out for:
Waxing – Mistakes to avoid
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Ouch!
If you still want to do it yourself, I recommend investing in a professional waxing treatment first, so you can observe and learn the proper techniques.
Laser hair removal – Mistakes to avoid
Home laser hair removal systems can save you a lot of money compared to professional treatments. However, it’s important to understand the risks (including burns, scars, and hyperpigmentation) if the devices are not used correctly.
Proceed with caution, take your time, and carefully follow the provided instructions.
Electrolysis – Mistakes to avoid
While there are some home electrolysis machines available, I do not recommend venturing down this path.
Performing electrolysis hair removal is a complex process, which is why professional electrologists are required to obtain licenses.
Not only are most home electrolysis machines unreliable, but there’s also a considerable risk of burning or scarring yourself. It’s best to consult a professional electrologist for this particular procedure.
Mistake #5: Going for the Biggest Bargain
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a provider for hair removal treatments.
Opting for an ultra-cheap price tag may result in a waxing service that leaves behind stray hairs or a laser treatment that yields patchy results. In the worst-case scenario, you could even end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
In conclusion
To achieve silky, soft, feminine skin, it’s crucial to avoid these common MTF hair removal mistakes. This is a major DO for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
Now that you’re aware of the don’ts to steer clear of, here are some articles that delve deeper into the topic of hair removal:
- Transgender Body Hair Removal – Which Method is Best for You?
- MTF Facial Hair Removal: Top 8 Ways To Remove Or Reduce Beard Hair
- Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works? (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
- Bikini Hair Removal Tips for Your Male to Female Transformation
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What are your preferred hair removal methods, and do you have any additional tips to share?
Take my hair removal poll below and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Nothing feels better than get in the shower sit on the bench n apply my cream n just take my time …Getting the area around my balls n my ass making sure to not miss a spot…i get so aroused…also its nice when my lady takes over gets the job done right.
You can’t beat the feeling of freshly shaved legs! x
I shave every day, head to toe. I’ve tried waxing and other types of hair removal. Just get in the shower, put on your favorite jams and go to work. I don’t use cream on my arms and legs, just a good 5 blade razor; chest and face cream: works wonders. Been doing it for longer than I can remember. Love the looks and feel.
I still remember the first time I shaved my legs I was going out on Halloween with a girlfriend who knew bout my cross dressing .. when I slid those stockings up my smith legs
Do they look good
Fabulous looks, but the FEELING, is so much better.
Good for the psychi as well.
Dr.T.J.
For some reason, this portal has not loaded my comment question, so I apologize if it populates later. Would someone pretty please recommend the Silk ‘N a Flash model that may work best for man type hair. Thank you! Arisl 🙂
I too use a combination of Beet, Nair, electric, and hand razors to smooth and hair free. It’s a lot of work and I would love to slow down my regrowrh as much as possible. I think I am going to get the Silk ‘n Flash, but notice various models; would someone please help me decide which one would be better for man type hair, pretty please? Arial 🙂
Thank you Lucille and all you beautiful FemGirls; I have also used a combination of Veet, Nair, electric, and hand razors to keep my face, chest, underarms, bikini area, arms, legs….and let’s not forget those little piggies at the end of my foot. You know, I didn’t realize how much work I was doing until just now.(LOL) I would love to just have all the hair from my body totally and forever removed! Some hair parts grow back faster than others, but like I always say a gurl’s gotta do what a gurl’s gotta do. I picked up some great tips from everyone, THANK YOU ALL!!! I’m going to try the wax strips, Aveeno shaving cream, and exfoliating to enhance my results. I am also going to invest in a Silk ‘n Flash; but I notched several models, would someone with experience please recommend the most preferable model for guy hair, PRETTY PLEASE???? Thx you! Arial 🙂
I am interested in Laser Hair Removal for men and want to get it from the neck down and facial hair too completely removed permentnantly do you know of any highly recommend places to get it done in Los Angeles County California…..?
Thank you.