There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
For crossdressers and transgender women, hair removal plays a big role in creating a feminine appearance. But when you’re dealing with lots of face or body hair, things can easily go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 MTF hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: Not Exfoliating
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and bikini area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. This helps get rid of dead skin cells that can trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes on Amazon.
It’s important to note that exfoliating immediately after hair removal can irritate the skin. Instead, it’s best to exfoliate either right before or a few days after the hair removal process.
Mistake #2: Forgetting to Moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, smooth skin, right?)
Pure aloe vera gel is a great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother.
Another option is to use an unscented lotion or body oil. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: Not Treating Ingrown Hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing your skin can help prevent future ingrown hairs. But what should you do about existing ingrown hair bumps?
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do. Resist the temptation of shaving over the ingrown hairs or attempting to extract them with a needle. These actions can lead to infections and scarring.
Instead, try using a specialized ingrown hair treatment like Tend Skin or PFB Vanish. These products are designed reduce razor bumps and ingrown hairs.
Mistake #4: DIY Hair Removal Gone Wrong
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it can be tempting to try to do them on your own.
However, be careful as some DIY hair removal techniques can lead to painful side effects if your technique isn’t perfect. Here are some pitfalls to watch out for:
Waxing – Mistakes to avoid
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Ouch!
If you still want to do it yourself, I recommend investing in a professional waxing treatment first, so you can observe and learn the proper techniques.
Laser hair removal – Mistakes to avoid
Home laser hair removal systems can save you a lot of money compared to professional treatments. However, it’s important to understand the risks (including burns, scars, and hyperpigmentation) if the devices are not used correctly.
Proceed with caution, take your time, and carefully follow the provided instructions.
Electrolysis – Mistakes to avoid
While there are some home electrolysis machines available, I do not recommend venturing down this path.
Performing electrolysis hair removal is a complex process, which is why professional electrologists are required to obtain licenses.
Not only are most home electrolysis machines unreliable, but there’s also a considerable risk of burning or scarring yourself. It’s best to consult a professional electrologist for this particular procedure.
Mistake #5: Going for the Biggest Bargain
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a provider for hair removal treatments.
Opting for an ultra-cheap price tag may result in a waxing service that leaves behind stray hairs or a laser treatment that yields patchy results. In the worst-case scenario, you could even end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
In conclusion
To achieve silky, soft, feminine skin, it’s crucial to avoid these common MTF hair removal mistakes. This is a major DO for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
Now that you’re aware of the don’ts to steer clear of, here are some articles that delve deeper into the topic of hair removal:
- Transgender Body Hair Removal – Which Method is Best for You?
- MTF Facial Hair Removal: Top 8 Ways To Remove Or Reduce Beard Hair
- Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works? (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
- Bikini Hair Removal Tips for Your Male to Female Transformation
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What are your preferred hair removal methods, and do you have any additional tips to share?
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Love,
Lucille
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I simply use mixture of Sugar, Lime and Water. I don’t have any facial or Hands/Legs Hair growth from last two months.
Waxing is the safest and the most efficient.
Seeing a esthetician is good exercise and a human contact, otherwise, using thin bands of wax bought at a beauty store works well. Just do small area at a time.
In time, just small tweezers will be enough.
The basal cells at the bottom of the hair cuticles get tired to regenerate. Friends and personnal data.
Dépressing, most féminine males are shaving, this action greys and thickens the skin.
Off topic, I am doing a research paper, question, do they sell human progesterone cream on public shelves?
Progesterone is also found in pine trees.
Hello,
for a couple of years i have these bumps on my upper lip. When i was a teenager i always shaved my upper lip and that’s when the bump-like things started. Then i stopped shaving at the age of 23 and i started tweezing. It’s less bumpy now but they still are there. I also used laser hair removal, but that didn’t work. I am a transgender woman so these bumps are really making me insecure. When i put my makeup on, it seems like as if i have stubble, but i don’t have stubble. those are those anoying bumps. What can i do? Please help me.
Don’t worry about the bumps, it is your immune system that overworks, as me.
Never wear make-up, it cracks and is an allergène by time.
Thank You Sooooo Much!!! “tears of joy”
Samantha, you are stunning, would love to see more pics. of you.Luv ,Dee
Damn you are cute Brandy
I put other, I’m poor. Can’t afford Anything other then Shaving, Nair and a little waxing. I have thick dark hair and light sensitive skin, so I basically wouldn’t care about the pain laser Or electrolysis would be ideal. Or perhaps a magic fairy showing up in the middle of the night to sprinkle fairy dust over me and poof! I awake Female(lol):-) I enjoyed what I read, and have gained some insight on what I should do with my ingrown hair issue’s thank you. Sorry for the re-edit.
is there maybe any kind of hair thinner for the body and face?
this way a simple shaving can give good results
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I ware almost all the cloths you show I do love the feel of thoughts cloths including the bras. I’m dressed now so I want to tell you thank you again I get a lot out of these things you send us. Thank you again.
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