Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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Michelle Pfeiffer
Linda Carter
Heather Locklear hands down. She has very feminne soft tones to her face. Classy and beautiful. She could look sexy in a potato sack.
Sandra Bullock is incredibly sexy.
My UNspecified vote was also for the still sexy at 60 Ms. Christie Brinkley. She is a wonderful example for what clean living can really do for a gal.
Elizabeth Vargas! Not sure why but I find her very attractive.
stay in shape by swimming, running; carry yourself like a younger woman/business(hands-on hips,other when talking to someone).
Marsha I totaly agree. I have been a cyclist since the age of 12 Road racing from the age of 16 I am now in my 80’s and still race, Even tho I’ve had 3 spills in the last 3 years, One where the surgen said if I had not been so fit I may not have made it , But also I dress permanently now as a woman and can cary it off extremely well, most people cannot even guess my age due to training and the ocasional resort to Lucille tips
Hi Lucille, I’m 73 and I wear minimum foundation but it does hide a couple of aging spots. I just hope I look as good as @Samantha Perrin when I’m 80. Samantha, you look Fab!
I don’t worry about the crows feet. They’re part of life. As I only go to parties and clubs when I’n dressed, I do dress quite young with way over-the-knee dresses and skirts, but I get more attention and positive comments than snarls.
Hi Demmy
Im a woman If i was still a man i take my home
make you my wife you a sexy lovely woman
like Linda Carter of ABC 1970s series wonder woman
said Beauty has no age even a woman in her 70s can look sexy like those Girls in high school