Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi again I’m a little down now I’m just feeling old I cant dress currently I’m waiting to get started I did find some of my things today I thought were gone but I missed them in my purge which makes me feel a little better I still have to take an inventory but I’ve got a few things 2 pair of control top panties 1 black 1 purple okay I’m not quite up to speed on my colors yet what would that be magenta maybe 1 black lace trimmed girdle 1 pair black sheer pantyhose 1 pair very cute black heels I need some bras & panties I found some bras but not good enough I do have a good collection of scarves not a large collection but quite a few and quite a bit of southwest jewelry need some new trinkets though earrings, bangle bracelets I’ll get there
I voted Sophia Loren I’ve always loved her she was one of role models and she still looks pretty hot even at her age she is a classic beauty and she looks really great in that dress and so would I at least soon I hope and pray
I voted Helen Mirren, shes got a great figure and she looks fabulous in that dress.
Well..I voted Raquel Welch
In our time Demi Moore and Kim Kattral are the most beautiful among those women.. But I’m a big fan of Raquel Welch (note that she’s older than Kim and Demi!)…
If I could choose to be similar to one of them, I’d choose to be like her when she was young! She’s still beautiful and looks younger for her age.
Dolly Parton has heart, looks and SASS…. The girl is sweet AND supports T folks…. she ought to, she has one in her family. I think it is a young-is transman because she is quoted as saying, when asked, “we’ll just say its a case of ‘a boy named Sue’ and let it go at that, ok?”
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Bette Middler’s got heart
Heather Locklear is still radiant.
Carol…you look lovely.So simple…Black and White…beautiful face,hair…just beautiful.
Dr.TJ