Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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Sorry no pictures, not brave enough. Many years in the closet but love my new self. Spouse is helping but not ready to come full out. She helps with my wardrobe and make up. Maybe I’ll make it all out next year at the Esprie convention in my town. Love to mingle with the girls on the night out.
Ok, I am so embarresed. My old excuse has been taken away… now what ? I will have to start and work harder. I am 54 and I look and feel much older, to my shagrin. I am so happy for you ladies, I can’t say enough. Thank You!
Lucille,
tips are wonderful. Am working on several of them already. Always great to hear others to inspire me to continue and to help me feel that I am ot alone in my transition.
Thanks
MYa
other please specity: Cheri Lunghi
Thanks Lucille for all advice ,
every days motto is :
forever young
Me at a few months shy of 60…lots of moisturizer, sleep, and water…
I was happy to see that I’ve been following a lot of these tips as integral parts of my regular beauty regimen. Another suggestion would be to lose weight whenever necessary. I too am also over 60! Cena
Hi Lucille,
In according to your top number 2 I would like to add very experimental photo not mine,but the part of my spring-summer wardrobe.It shows that I am trying to use brigt colours in my wardrobe. Recently I haven’t even known the right names of colours of my tops or dresses. But my teacher is my daughter,who is young perspective painter and designer. Now I know the colours,applying in clothes painting which I couldn’t even imagine such as the colour of sunrise seawave,the colour of sunset seawave,the colour of young red wine,the colour of the first forest strawberry,the colour of pink powder.Even my jeans isn’t black.It’s the colour of the new asphalt.Unfortunately my photo camera was stolen on vacation.Now I have bought the new one and I’m ready to create the photos of my new feminine image as a result of 3 months intensive feminizing exercises,herbal experience and a lot of advices of Feminization Kit and other magical sessions.
Great! Love the colors. And I love your color descriptions – new asphalt, young red wine, sunset seawave – YES!