Age is a popular topic around here and I’m occasionally asked…
“Am I too old to crossdress?” or “Am I too old to transition as a transgender woman?”
My response?
NO, of course not!
Whether you are a so-called mature crossdresser – or an older MTF woman beginning her transition – it is NEVER too late to be your true female self.
I believe that the true desires or your heart are meant to be expressed – no matter how long they’ve been buried.
Is it true that your age may have an impact on hormone therapy or surgery? Yes, that’s possible. But a good doctor will guide you on your best and safest options.
The fact remains that you can transition and/or present yourself as a woman at any point in life.
In fact, embracing your feminine side can give you a whole new lease on life…
I see it all the time: People seem to grow years younger when they make the decision to be themselves fully.
Having the courage to express your true self also inspires others to do the same. The world needs more of this!
In the words of Laverne Cox:
“It is revolutionary for any trans person to choose to be seen and visible in a world that tells us we should not exist.”
I’ll say it again: You are NEVER too old to be your true female self.
So, I encourage you to take that next step and do whatever it is that you’ve been holding back on.
You deserve it. And it’s not too late!
Do you agree that age is just a number?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU on this topic…
How old were you when you decided to fully embrace your female self? (Or are you still waiting?)
Let’s continue the conversation in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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One truly is never too old,, I will be 55 in April ,and I made my decision , 1 and a half years a go to live as a female 24-7, after hiding all my life,I sort of had a meltdow after my Mom’s ,my Mother in law’s and my stepson’s untimely deaths ,, and realized life is too short,, and as far as we all know we only get one shot at this thing we call life.. Lucille is correct,, it’s never too late,,be who you were really meant to be, I know one thing ,, living as a female I can face my final day with courage,, (hopefully, it’s real far away still..l.o.l..) knowing “I did it my way”.. <3 hugs and kisses to all , and thank you Lucille,, you are wonderful.. <3
Joslin, you definitely made the right decision.
You are pretty, you would have been wasting your time as a male.
http://youtu.be/D_JHJ3L8JZA
i would love to have the nerve to go out dressed in public
Holly is right–just do it, but be careful where and when. I just finally went out in the afternoon, and I feel just so much better. It’s hard to describe, but I even think clearer, especially about myself and this issue as well.
I completely agree. Just do it and be careful. There is nothing like the feel of a tight silky blouse and tight skirt over a lacy bra, panties, garter and stockings. Of course black high heels. Even if you are only able to do it at home, go for it.
I forgot to say, I’m nearly 68. Decided while I’m still here, I needed to go complete outfit and go out in public. Had crossdressed since 8 or so, but as an adult only in lingerie. Now I love the feel of the skirt and tight sweater over me as much as the hose and bra, and the view of my (nice) legs with hose, skirt and high heels–all black. I only regret not doing this a long time ago!
May I say, “jus’ do it”. Shoulders back, head up, smile and be yourself! disclaimer: Dont do this on a dark back alley!
They. Say A picture is worth a thousand words how about “76”
did you mean 36, you look simply fantastic. wish we could meet, me 77.
Never too old to start! I started at 44 and am now 65. If you think you are too old then you are…I figured at 44 I was just getting started. I had retired from a career *26 years* and now I figured was my time so I went ahead and started the process. My best advice is GO FOR IT!
Very nice I’m 52 just started 4 years ago.
Of course you can transition at any age. Actually, age tends to equalize things so it’s easier to get a more female look, even if other aspects may be harder. I made the decision at 26 and have been living as myself for almost a year now and it’s actually possible to live now 😉 Just have to get over depression issues now 😉
I must say this post was timely – I ‘just’ got done telling someone I was too old to begin, but were I twenty years younger…..
Regardless, I am 68 and I will confess to not yet having the courage. I am taking herbs to grow my breasts and I love them and the feeling, but to actually dress??? Can’t seem to take the step. Being a caregiver may have something to do with it. Regardless, loved the post.
You’re never too old. I can say this because I’m 41, (well, I tell people I’m 31, hehe, I mean if I can change my gender, can I not change my age? Right?!
I’ll not lie, it’s a difficult journey. But I suspect it is at any age.
Truth is, what we have as older folks is our think skin, and who gives a shit attitude.
You MUST be happy. It’s that simple.
For many of us it was transition or hide from the world or worse.
Truly, go after what you want, who you want to be, how you want to live, and who you want to love. Life is as short as the universe is infinite.
Make the most of it!!
Michelle, you look great! I only will ever wish I could truly feel and look as nice as you do.
Michelle you have beautiful eyes and such smooth skin! Very pretty! I agree I definitely have a “who gives a shit” attitude.
Thanks, hun!
Wow! Michelle! I reckon you hit the nail on the head! I couldn’t agree more and your image shows how naturally insightful you are. May I ‘take leaves’ from ur (book) of wisdom.
Lucille, this topic was a brilliant one and I found many fantastic suggestions and few that were troubling. I feel everyone has differences e.g., agendas, situations…geographic, societal, cultural, philosophical and so on. For me, family is probably of most importance. We depend on each other in various ways. I’ve never denied my true femmeself, but things happen along our individual life~paths. At present, luckily I’ve had my S.O. come on my journey now and progressively be more supportive. It’s a two way street too. I am so much more domestic and might I add incredibly more female-inine as well. At home I am femme clothed, but still take advice from S.O. re: dressing my age / suitability when out. My rewards: being taken on dress, lingerie & cosmetics shopping expeditions together…which are so exciting for me! As time goes by, I become more skilfully & courageous. Gender therapy, transition items are quickly approaching at very good pace. Emotional aspects are dealt with as the transition occurs and ain’t that glorious. Individuals transition when it suits not at any specific age.
Big hugs & kissies to Lucille, helpers, and all U gurls!!!!; ) Thnx…Love, Jaine XXX