Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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It is not easy finding a bra to fit. I am 40 up there. The sizes all across the range of clothing are baffling. 6′, 175#, and 40-35-39. Am I an XL or what when it comes to dresses, panties, etc?
“Dave”…I buy my Bras from JCPenney and Amazon.
Hey sometimes it depends on the bra and what letter you are. I can sometimes fit as small as 36 but I use an extender. most of the stores don’t have anything in a small cup size larger than 36. Panties should be no problem there are so many and you should fit medium or large. I rarely find XL or plus size clothing that looks good. It will look to big or baggy. I get smaller sizes and sometimes alter the shoulders.
Thank you; new to this. Just wanna look femme indoors!
My wife hates wearing a bra she says they are uncomfortable but I love wearing mine and a nice silky slip
No compreda,sorry.
When I ware these hot little booty pants and other lingerie it makes me O constantly!!! I cant get enough!
Nise set I understood completely gurlfriend
my favorite peace of clothing is long night gowns. i wear them every night and own over 100 of them. their is nothing like waking up having the silky fabric caressing your body making you feel so girly.
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I do not own any male tee shirts, tank tops, or underwear slacks or jeans. I wear a 40c bra with forms when I am fully dressed staying in or going out. When dressing androgynously and underdressing If I can find them I wear a 40A bra or a loose 38B. My panties/thongs are all silky,coloured along with my bras. I have some white underwear for wearing under white slacks, jeans and blouses. My tank tops are all womens, coloured and are both in narrow and wide strap modals. All have built in bras. The narrow strap ones I wear under shirts/blouses.The wide strap ones I wear exposed. My shirts/blouses both long sleeve and short are all womens. No one notices the buttons on the opposite side. My sandals, shoes are all womens. when dressed androgynously I wear jeans longer to hide the heals. My toes in summer are light pink in winter wearing socks reds, purples etc. The fingers are always shear nude, clear or a light pink unless I am fully dressed.No one notices the daily colour. I shop fully dressed and in daily androgynous mode in the women’s departments at sears, walmart, target, shoe stores such as payless,specialty stores etc. along with the thrift stores. I try the clothes on, never had a problem. Staff are trained to work with transgender people, and you are not their first customer. Remember your money is as good as anyone else’s. The only embarrassment is your embarrassment so shop with confidence and have fun.
Although they are hard to find, I highly recommend wearing silky pettipants that will reach your thigh or knees. They feel so good under pants.
leslie i to are wearing the pettipant or bloomer shorts try getting on amazon they have a great selection at a reasonable price.