Who doesn’t want to look like a sexy, hot woman? The trick, of course, is to avoid crossing that fine line from sexy to slutty.
If you are a crossdresser or transgender woman who wants to look sexy AND classy, you’ve come to the right place.
First, let’s define what won’t necessarily make you sexy:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a lot more subtle. In this blog post, I share 5 easy things you can do to enhance your feminine sex appeal – without overdoing it.
1. Don’t Bare It All
When it comes to dressing sexy, the #1 rule to keep in mind is: Leave something to the imagination.
Rather than baring it all, try showing off just one area of your body at a time.
- For example, you could flaunt your legs in a shorter skirt or dress, while keeping your arms and chest covered with a higher neckline or long sleeves.
- Or, you might choose to reveal your décolletage with a lower-cut top, but then balance it out with a longer skirt or trousers.
By highlighting just one area of your body, you create a sexy yet sophisticated look that is sure to turn heads.
2. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
If you’re looking to up your feminine sex appeal, there’s one color you should be reaching for – RED.
This bold hue is synonymous with passion, desire, and love, making it the perfect color to wear to ignite your sensual side.
Incorporating even a few touches of red, such as a statement bag or a pair of heels, can work wonders for enhancing your feminine allure.
3. Define Your Waistline
One way to accentuate your figure without showing too much skin is by defining your waistline. This technique not only flatters your shape but also creates a sexy hourglass silhouette.
Achieving this look is simple – try wearing a belt over a dress or tucking in a top at the waist.
Another excellent option for defining your waist is a wrap dress, which cinches in at the waistline and flatters your curves.
For more tips on how to create that sexy hourglass shape, be sure to check out my blog post on How to Get a More Feminine Figure (Male to Female): Top 5 MTF Tips.
4. Try a Sexy Workout
Achieving a fit, toned body through regular exercise is undoubtedly a great way to feel sexy. However, why not take it one step further and try a workout that also enhances your sex appeal?
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease are all excellent options that not only burn calories but also allow you to channel your inner seductress.
These workouts also help develop more feminine and fluid body movements, an essential part of an overall attractive feminine appearance.
Try the Sensual Dance Tutorial For Beginners in Heels workout above and get started today!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes (whether it’s male or female attire) will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
For more on how to look your best in lingerie, check out my blog post on Crossdressing / Transgender Lingerie: How to Look Hot in Female Lingerie.
What are your favorite ways to look sexy and classy?
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. What are your favorite ways to look both sexy and classy? Please leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
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Yes!!! Summer and warmer weather is finally here! I like my short(but not too short) skirts. From my pic, you can see one of my favorite sleevless shirts. Yes, I am very much into being in my cowgirl mode. I feel that I dress with taste and not tackiness. I have even recieved compliments a few occasions from some genetic girls. (at least when I dont botch my makeup) lol.
I am a 57 yr very young looking professional male in law enforcement. I have always enjoyed wearing women’s under garments. I wear everything from bras to body shapers, garter belts and hose even whe at work. I am a B cup wanting to get a little bigger. I think I can hide that size at work, especially with a vest on. I am not married so I can run about my house all day and night dressed only in lingerie. I am on my third month attempting to get bigger breast but everything seems to have stopped growing. What to do? Any clues, I am only using a cream right now but have been looking into herbal pills, any ideas?
Thanks
Wendell, it takes time to grow your breasts. I’ved used the fennel tea mixed with lotion. One breast is somewhat larger that the other but both of them are turning into female shaped breasts. Just be patient and keep massaging religiously. Keep using the herbs that Lucille has suggested. One morning you will wake up and, as I did, look down and see something different than when you went to bed.
I am a 34B on a good day but I can say it is following a lot of what Lucille has posted and finding what works for you. Also I do work out and keep thin but I pay special attention to exercises that increase the chest or breast size. Butterfly presses wide arm push ups and stuff like that. Also as Lucille has written a few times never underestimate the ability to improve your breast appearance with a excellent bra. I am wearing a VS push up with extra padding on the side to enhance the cleavage line. Yes I can naturally make my firm B’s look like very full C cups wth a bra and the right clothes.
Michelle
The fat cell structure under the skin is similar as the bone cell structure, you could model their form by constant light pressure. Read a physiology text book, chapter on bone structure, to see that.
Estrogens and some poly-phénols also promotes glucose to be absorb through cell membranes at the breast sites and some parts of the skeleton, inside to be assemble into fat.
I am glad to read all of the comments from TG girls. I am 67 years old. I wish that I could experiment with cross dressing. The things that women do are so sexy. Like shaving their legs and having breasts. I love the feel of my breasts dangling from my chest. I love the bare pubic area. At one point some years ago, I had some bras and panties. But my wife is exceedingly homophobic and divorce is not an option, so I just slowly grow my breasts and shave as much of my body as I can. I do enjoy reading the posts on your site Lucille. Thanks for your breast enlargement program. Dee
i have a lowcut blouse that i think accentuates my breasts… it’s a light green and gives the men a “go” signal.. 🙂 but choosing a longer skirt can offset the sexiness of the blouse.. reel back in the offer and turn the whole outfit into a a tease..
joanne
Dear Lucille,
With the popularity of the ‘little black dress’ it is almost a must for every girl or woman to have in her wardrobe. They can be accessorized very easily. I have a couple but have one that I wear the most when I go out to the TG friendly and TG orientated bars and nightclubs while dolled up and in my feminine finest. It is actually a short cocktail dress. It has long bell sleeves that are made of gauzy material and transparent and the upper portion of the bodice of the dress is a taffeta material and is back zip. I was feminized in an era were back zip was very popular and that included back zip denim pants for women and also women’s shorts. Most of the things I have are back zip and my bras are back hook. But the skirt part of this dress is also taffeta with a gauze overlay that has a ruffle at the bottom hem. It is a few inches above my knees. The bodice is just low enough in the front to display a little cleavage that I create. Underneath I wear a all black including my corset with garter straps, I’m a garters and hose girl and very seldom wear pantyhose, but I mostly wear black hose with it and love wearing back seamed stockings with a Cuban heel and toe. Sometimes I wear fishnets. For a change on occasion I will wear suntan (light brown) hose and those are usually back seamed also. My bra and panties are also black of course, sometimes I wear garter belts but a corset with garter straps does help define my waist and give me that womanly shape. Having a pair of black ankle strap sandals on my feet with a 3 or 4 inch heels adds to the look I try to achieve. My toenails and fingernails are painted the same shade of red as my lipstick. Wearing sandals do make my toenails visible through the reinforced toe of my stockings
I do have other colors of dresses, skirts, blouses and shoes but this dress is my favorite for going out.
Hugs and kisses,
Julie
OH, and I forgot! I carry a black clutch purse when wearing the ‘Li’l black dress’. I carry the usual contents in it that would be found in a woman’s purse; tube of lipstick, compact, spare makeup, small bottle of perfume (Giorgio), hairbrush, cell phone, female picture ID (fake driver’s license with a picture of me as a woman and my sex listed as female) and a couple of tampons.
Julie
I have to say I feel my sexiest in black,sexy black lace lingerie and one of my little black dresses,I feel so feminine and ladylike,but with a hint of the seductress.At this moment in time I have only a b cup,but this dress in my pic above shows them off to great effect and leaves me feeling fabulous
Sophie xx
RED is definitely the key have a size 10 Halter Dress Im dieting to wear. Ten pounds to go thanks for the workout tips