Who doesn’t want to look like a sexy, hot woman? The trick, of course, is to avoid crossing that fine line from sexy to slutty.
If you are a crossdresser or transgender woman who wants to look sexy AND classy, you’ve come to the right place.
First, let’s define what won’t necessarily make you sexy:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a lot more subtle. In this blog post, I share 5 easy things you can do to enhance your feminine sex appeal – without overdoing it.
1. Don’t Bare It All
When it comes to dressing sexy, the #1 rule to keep in mind is: Leave something to the imagination.
Rather than baring it all, try showing off just one area of your body at a time.
- For example, you could flaunt your legs in a shorter skirt or dress, while keeping your arms and chest covered with a higher neckline or long sleeves.
- Or, you might choose to reveal your décolletage with a lower-cut top, but then balance it out with a longer skirt or trousers.
By highlighting just one area of your body, you create a sexy yet sophisticated look that is sure to turn heads.
2. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
If you’re looking to up your feminine sex appeal, there’s one color you should be reaching for – RED.
This bold hue is synonymous with passion, desire, and love, making it the perfect color to wear to ignite your sensual side.
Incorporating even a few touches of red, such as a statement bag or a pair of heels, can work wonders for enhancing your feminine allure.
3. Define Your Waistline
One way to accentuate your figure without showing too much skin is by defining your waistline. This technique not only flatters your shape but also creates a sexy hourglass silhouette.
Achieving this look is simple – try wearing a belt over a dress or tucking in a top at the waist.
Another excellent option for defining your waist is a wrap dress, which cinches in at the waistline and flatters your curves.
For more tips on how to create that sexy hourglass shape, be sure to check out my blog post on How to Get a More Feminine Figure (Male to Female): Top 5 MTF Tips.
4. Try a Sexy Workout
Achieving a fit, toned body through regular exercise is undoubtedly a great way to feel sexy. However, why not take it one step further and try a workout that also enhances your sex appeal?
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease are all excellent options that not only burn calories but also allow you to channel your inner seductress.
These workouts also help develop more feminine and fluid body movements, an essential part of an overall attractive feminine appearance.
Try the Sensual Dance Tutorial For Beginners in Heels workout above and get started today!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes (whether it’s male or female attire) will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
For more on how to look your best in lingerie, check out my blog post on Crossdressing / Transgender Lingerie: How to Look Hot in Female Lingerie.
What are your favorite ways to look sexy and classy?
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. What are your favorite ways to look both sexy and classy? Please leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
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dressing myself fully as a woman…sexy lingerie, dress or skirt with coat or jacket high heels and of course make-up makes me a happy woman
Lucille I had to let you know I got the compliment all of us t-girls want to hear today, twice, I was called ma’am. Plus I was complimented on my blouse, leapard print with a drape neck, and asked where I got it. My nail tech even did a double take today when I went in for a pedi and she knows I cross dress :)! Many thanks to you and all your advice.
For me, there are two things I do to feel sexy. One is to simply dress sexy. I don’t have much red in my collection, but I have lots and lots and lots of sexy dresses and skirts, things you don’t see girls wearing from day to day unless there’s a party. The second thing I do is strut. A lady friend once pointed out to me that after a makeover at a local beauty shop that I would always strut out of the store after a makeover. I never realized it before, but she was right. I also noticed that that confidence (and the makeover) had a lot to do with how succesful I was at passing.
Here I am in my new red tank top I got just today! Yes Lucille I wear a wig I know you advise against that,but I am bald and you should consider that and I am 71 years in age. I love to feminize in many ways. Love to all you she males and wish you well in the pursuit of the essence of femininity.
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Hugs Andrea
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Hugs Andrea
Thanks for your good blogs, many of them are very helpfull. I’m trying to wear many different coulors, an hope than they are looking good on me.
Hugs Andrea
Let’s see, what makes me feel my sexiest and most feminine? I would have to say its after I’ve scraped all that nasty hair off my face and body, donned my breastforms, make up, a cute outfit with accessories and head off to go shopping:-) Yes, I am on Lucille’s herbal breast enlargement program for a while now, six months, and the girls are growing but so slowly I broke down and got some forms from “The Breastform Store”. I LOVE them!!! They are worth every penny plus some! I can sport 38Ds that jiggle and bounce like the real thing whenever I want.
Here are two tips that have helped me pass or blend in as a woman. First, have your brows professionally shaped and tinted if they are light colored like mine, worth every penny. Second, get a professional make over with lessons, again it is worth every penny. I went to a MAC studio near me and they were extreemly friendly and helpful with the result being that I can now apply my make up quickly and look great when I am done. Don’t try to guess and freelance make up, it is well worth the money for some lessons and they will direct you to the proper colors for your complexion as well as the proper tools to do an artist’s job.
One other thing, Stienmart has a great collection of very stylish clip on ear rings and Hobby Lobby has a few ways to adapt standard ear rings to a clip on base for those that can’t pierce, like me, ear rings definately helped finished the look I was going for.