Who doesn’t want to look like a sexy, hot woman? The trick, of course, is to avoid crossing that fine line from sexy to slutty.
If you are a crossdresser or transgender woman who wants to look sexy AND classy, you’ve come to the right place.
First, let’s define what won’t necessarily make you sexy:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a lot more subtle. In this blog post, I share 5 easy things you can do to enhance your feminine sex appeal – without overdoing it.
1. Don’t Bare It All
When it comes to dressing sexy, the #1 rule to keep in mind is: Leave something to the imagination.
Rather than baring it all, try showing off just one area of your body at a time.
- For example, you could flaunt your legs in a shorter skirt or dress, while keeping your arms and chest covered with a higher neckline or long sleeves.
- Or, you might choose to reveal your décolletage with a lower-cut top, but then balance it out with a longer skirt or trousers.
By highlighting just one area of your body, you create a sexy yet sophisticated look that is sure to turn heads.
2. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
If you’re looking to up your feminine sex appeal, there’s one color you should be reaching for – RED.
This bold hue is synonymous with passion, desire, and love, making it the perfect color to wear to ignite your sensual side.
Incorporating even a few touches of red, such as a statement bag or a pair of heels, can work wonders for enhancing your feminine allure.
3. Define Your Waistline
One way to accentuate your figure without showing too much skin is by defining your waistline. This technique not only flatters your shape but also creates a sexy hourglass silhouette.
Achieving this look is simple – try wearing a belt over a dress or tucking in a top at the waist.
Another excellent option for defining your waist is a wrap dress, which cinches in at the waistline and flatters your curves.
For more tips on how to create that sexy hourglass shape, be sure to check out my blog post on How to Get a More Feminine Figure (Male to Female): Top 5 MTF Tips.
4. Try a Sexy Workout
Achieving a fit, toned body through regular exercise is undoubtedly a great way to feel sexy. However, why not take it one step further and try a workout that also enhances your sex appeal?
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease are all excellent options that not only burn calories but also allow you to channel your inner seductress.
These workouts also help develop more feminine and fluid body movements, an essential part of an overall attractive feminine appearance.
Try the Sensual Dance Tutorial For Beginners in Heels workout above and get started today!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes (whether it’s male or female attire) will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
For more on how to look your best in lingerie, check out my blog post on Crossdressing / Transgender Lingerie: How to Look Hot in Female Lingerie.
What are your favorite ways to look sexy and classy?
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. What are your favorite ways to look both sexy and classy? Please leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love red!!, and lingerie!! Stephanie , thank you for the “think from your pelvic triangle” . Will definitely try to put that into practice.
Hi Jamie Elise
I truly hope you don’t take this insultingly but OMG, you are fabulous. Your pictures made me think from my pelvic triangle. I’m sorry sweetie, I wouldn’t normally talk this way, but OMG. And red really does look good on you.
Much love ❤
Tina D. H.
Hi– For me it is when I am able to take a moment and become comfortable in my body. To know and experience my fem presence from within… with this decision my subconscious guides me into my true essence allowing me to begin to experience my full potential, as a woman.
***I find that from inside my core, just below the navel, this “power of presence” washes over me and allows me to move and become more intuitive, sexy, fun, elegant and oh so pretty. This shows me I KNOW I am pretty ~ from the inside out. Others respond to me this way.
Each time these favorable responses helps me develop courage, beauty and strength. As each time I hear (even if just to myself) as my femme name called or used now allows me to stand in the power of this presence and image myself as I was and as if I were a little girl up through young adult hood, ALL AS A GENETIC WOMAN.
This now reveals to me more fully to experience that all along, yes all along, you Kristine Anne have been a girl (Kristy, Kristina and now my adulthood Kristine Anne). A even now more and more a pretty, special and high value woman.
Any thoughts RESPOSE appreciated from anyone and my pic I posted is exactly what I am talking about in this effort to express the feeling evoked from Lucille’s question.
Thank you Lucille luv 2u xoxo Kristine Anne
(the entire evening / prom post is found here: http://ultrakw77.tumblr.com/ )
I love you picture, your dress looks lovely
My trick that I found to be my most convincing and sexiest is always try to live and think from my pelvic triangle. When I first transitioned, a good friend (GG) showed me how to do this. Just imagine that you talk, walk, think and act from the front of your pelvis just above your little “love nest.” You first start practicing this as you walk, swinging your hips and walking by leading everything from there. Once you get the hang of that, then you start acting from it, talking from it and living from it. I have been doing this for years now and it really works. There are times when all I have to do is enter a room, my heels clicking on the floor and a smile on my red lips and the room goes silent. But be careful, if you don’t want to be noticed, this isn’t for you…. but I can guarantee that if you use this method, you will practically ooze femininity from the pores of your very being.
Stephanie Stockton
Stephanie and Kristine Anne are absolutely right! Shoulders back, walking with your pelvis and heels gives you that sway and saunter we all try to achieve. It has quite an effect on both men and women! It just exudes confidence and sexiness
Anita– Hi, I imagine we are true “kindred spirits” somehow. And in another time while we were in our regency period empire waisted gowns, we speak of the latest glove style to appear at the recitle, or something very romantic as this! Lol
Your pic – total look ~ very fab 🙂 Luv the skirt length, luv the hair style, luv4u and luv2u along with Ms. Sorella, of course, holding our hands here. Almost enough to make you cry, just cry because it is all so beautiful to be a.true woman from within.
You are standing like I would imagine – ready with the femminessense just before you walk over and show you are ready to be kissed.
How does this make you feel? Especiallt when you can pyll your hair behond one ear?
Kristine Anne
Stephanie, Hi I just posted (showed awaiting moderation). And your post is just below mine for now. However, please read my comments. I find it uncanny that I explained the same thing as you just in my introspectively.
thanks for sharing, you are a high value woman and I appreciate you.
xoxo Kristine Anne
OMG, Lucille, I absolutely love these tips. I should try these next time I speak with an attractive, single girl, particularly the seductive eye contact.
(I’m a Lesbian T-Girl).
Love and Lipstick,
<3 Jasmine
I think you are absolutely right about wearing red and of course nice lingerie is so important especially with lace. Add stockings and suspenders, heaven!
AS you can see, it love RED too
Hi I’m Lory from Italy. I really love your suggests and I act exactly as you say while en femme. The problem is that when I’m “en homme ” most of the people talks to me using feminine names also if I act masculine and none knows I’m a transvestite.When en femme men look at me as a sexual object,also if I wear normal clothes.That’s why I have problems with go out in public in last months..Soon I’ll post a photo..
What makes me feel the sexiest?
Well, a couple months ago, the answer would been “my nightgown”, but to be completely honest, nothing makes me feel sexier than my dearest girl friend telling me how good I look with the red wig (while trying to eat me with her eyes).
I do agree most part about wearing super short skirts and stripper heels might not be a good way to look sexy, but I also believe the place you are going makes a huge difference too. If you’re going out clubbing, then I think that’s fine if you have the body for it. But if you are just going out shopping, then that might make you look slutty instead of sexy. Also, for any of you laddies who has daughters, girlfriend, or wife… the outfit you want to go out with… will you want them to wear it to go out shopping or whatever? If the answer is no, then I wouldn’t wear it.
Good point Lia! 😉