You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have been in transition for about 9 months and for the last 4 have been on HRT. This isn’t a long span of time but in this time by far my greatest achievement has to be the simple fact that after almost 33 years I finally came to know myself for the first time. The night that I realized that I had been repressing who I was all my life out of fear and shame has been the single greatest joy I have experienced in this life thus far. That night I found Kaylee, and she will never be allowed to be pushed down or repressed ever again. That night I finally started living.
Nice question
I’ve been at it for about 4 years
Am a CD, which has advantages and disadvantages, i.e. emormous pleasure dressing and going out, but some trouble in feeling really feminine because I’m not feminine.
My wife encourages me and is very flattering about my appearance.
The only real pb I have is with my voice. I think you have to feel feminine in order to speak feminine. Sometimes I just about make it and sometimes not.
Am not sure whether I’ve answered the question.
Much love,
Jeanette
I think you have answered the question. Your achievement is the same as mine, dressing and going out. Don’t worry about your voice, as an interim measure, I just soften my voice and choose my words carefully.
There is a new phone app, called eva, I think, It is to help those of us, who will make the leap. I will cd for now, and stay in my own little world
For me there have been many challenges and areas of study in order to get where I am today. Things like weight loss an developing a slim fit sexy body, skin care and cosmetics for a natural healthy look, fashion – learning what looks good on me and what doesn’t… and the list goes on. But that’s all just practical stuff.
But the biggest achievement, and the one that makes everything else come into focus, is the ability to tap into my true inner feminine self. It’s difficult to describe, but it’s sort of like “being in the zone” if you know what I mean. And when I’m there (which sadly isn’t all the time) I radiate femininity from the inside out. It just feels natural.
Jane
For me, the gen I greatest achievement in getting the perfect look. When someone sees me or my picture, all they see is a woman, not a man. It has taken me years to perfect, and also feel comfortable and stress free when out and about. I am only part-time because I am married and she does not approve. I dress when I can, and when I do, I make the most of it!
Honey you are gorgeous~
I just started to realize about three years ago that I was different or not complete. I finally, figured out that I feel out of place in my male form. I started talking to my wife about my feelings and desires about ten months ago, then started counseling, where I was told I was Trans-Gender, and that is where all of my emotional conflict was coming from. My wife and I have had a rough time as she refuses to accept me with the changes that are happening in my life, as she married a MAN and is not interested in being married to a woman.
About a month ago we were able to come to a comprise, that allowed me to express my feminine side, but at the same time she gets to keep the man she married, at least for now.
I am not full-time yet, so cannot give an achievement relating to that.
Greatest achievement so far for me is joining a local walking group as Andrea. Practically everyone is really nice to me, and I feel SO me and SO confident doing this now, and having so much chat with so many people. Have been to six walks so far, after the first one I went to a restaurant with 40 of them for the annual dinner (had a lovely time), and after another walk I was invited to coffee (which, of course, I went to) by a group of girls. Oh, I have a couple of male admirers from the group too! Gulp!
I’m 3 months into transition (hormones) and what comes to mind is work all call me Paula and I was talking to my boss showing her the letter I wrote to explain myself and how I wanted to be treated and my co-worker looked at me and said wow I thought you where female she was only new and didn’t know my story
My greatest transgender achievement was two years ago when I surrendered to my feminine self and started living full time as a woman. I must admit that the first time I went out dressed was very stressful. Now I go out whenever and wherever I want to, no stress. It may seem strange, but it is stressful now to go out as a guy.
For whatever it is worth, my advice is to just relax and enjoy being feminine.
Robyn
You look very naturally feminine… and relaxed!