You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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i was recently engaged and as such i booked my self in for a bridal appointment (try on) at a few different boutiques it was the best decision i ever made apart from getting married i was treated like a princess the whole time and even told i looked better than most women who’d visited made my day 🙂
I ride the bus or rail train and am always enfemme wherever I go in H-Town, Tx. I love wearing my bras and panties, and other lingerie and no one looks at me and really gives a wink to me. I now wear 36D bras under my blouses and will love to get my SRS done and then be the best woman I can be. I live in an apt. and all my neighbors is bot aware of my of my gender. They all see me as a woman. My BFF is a lesbian and she is the only person that knows who I am.
In June 1990 I encountered the ladies of Transpitt at their “Be All’ convention at a local hotel and asked for some information about their group. I went to a new members meeting that Fall which was the first time ever in public dressed. They were great with much encouragement and knowledge transfer … I blossomed. I went on to become an officer of the group and organized and managed the next two Be-Alls in 1994 and 1998 which required dealing with the pubic all en femme … a real growth experience.
I have spoken at all of the local colleges as part of outreach efforts and I have made many friends in the process. Today, although not as frequently as I’d like, I feel free to go virtually anywhere en femme and I am very comfortable about it. I general receive “she”, “her” and “Ma’ams” from folks and I suppose that is an accomplishment in itself.
I am more comfortable in femme mode than in male mode.
Thanks
WILLA
I think every TG woman must surely always remember the first time she went out in a dress or skirt. Most of us take baby steps – jeans, tiny bit of make up, ambiguous top or shoes … but we all have one day we can remember when we went full on, with hair, make up, dress and heels. Mine was a shopping trip with my sister and I will never forget it. Next most memorable? for me it was being called ‘Princess’ by a male cashier in a petrol station … I knew I’d made it!!
Hello Lucille if I must pick 1 accomplishment I guess going out in public dressed . I go out quite a bit to shop the mall and shops consignment stores. Also going to get my hair done nails n waxing all dressed so feminine wanted to do this so much when I was younger seeing moms or other women going to the beauty salons or spas.all dressed wearing dresses stockings and makeup. I no longer just wish or dream I go out dressed up smelling beautiful sprizting my legs with perfume. The salon I go to is a lady who does hair and other salon services in her basement I watched so many women over the years next door to me when I was younger. Now I go myself as a woman I love every minute everytime I visit the salon wearing skirts n dresses what a great feeling. then go shopping or errands or even trying on clothes just at the stores . I have to say Lucille you have a wonderful site you yourself have given me great ideas and confidence I feel a big change in myself and getting the fear out of me. Thankyou sooo much Love Mandy
My greatest achievement have been my breasts. I massage them every day as your video suggested 180 to 360 times. I wear a waist cincher high just under the breasts, a cupless bra (basically it’s just the underwire), and then a corset vest. The entire procedure seems to make the “girls” jump out just like I want them to. The corset vest with Sculptz Tights from Silkies seem to deal quite nicely with the rear and waist. I alternate between 2 ½ inch and 6 inch heels. The end result is a very satisfying figure if I do say so myself. I love it so much that I stay dressed for hours. Make-up —- dah —- I can’t do my eyes to save my life. Shop-a-holic extraordinaire, Deb Shops, Lane Bryant, Torrid, Hourglass Angel, DSW, Boston Proper, Charlotte Russe, Hips and Curves, New York New York, Venus, and the list goes on and on. The “walk” is coming along but sad to say not the voice (no pun intended). I listen to your tapes for hours and these are some of my most happiest times.
My greatest achievement was to finally accept that I can be 6’7″ tall and still present as a woman. Until I reached that place in my head, even though I had been going out, I was always uncomfortable. I think for me, the comment of a child knocked something loose in my head and I never have had a insecurity problem since. I was attending a church service with some friends at their church. After the service, a child walked up to me and commented,”You are the tallest lady I have ever seen!” You could have knocked me over with a feather! Since that day, I have not been anxious about telling anyone I am trans, or being seen in public. One other comment I have taken to heart is the saying,”What others think about you is none of your business.” That has become my daily motto. I have never been more content with myself in my life!
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My greatest moment is two things.
1. Being able to notice I have some nice breast growth now may be small but I have learned how to create cleavage when I want to, but also keep the growth hidden
2. I now enjoy to dress up to travel and show my curves I am so proud of. I get looks because I look like a man with breasts I don’t care they don’t know me!
I will keep trying to grow more inside and out and will one day be girl totally I was ment to be
THANK YOU all for your support!!!
We gals need to stick together and help each other be free of our male bondage to be the women we want to be
I still need to get over my fear of family and friends accepting my real self so I hide Kelly from them but that will end soon I hope