Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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I feel disappointed if I am not noticed. I love it when complimented. I happily accept when men and women offer to buy me a drink!
Ive always wanted to blend in, but always stand out, albeit for the right reasons, but dont want to have to stop & talk to anyone! In the end after I get home I find what a turn-on it is to get hit on everywhere I go! Suppose its a good thing! Lol
I have not went dressed as a female in public yet When I do I definitely want to stand out maybe get a whistle even
Does anyone know why I can’t post / add an image of myself? Or is there a delay?
There is normally no delay. I have have had instances where when I refreshed the page, I would not see my new comment (then refreshing a few minutes later, I would see the comment).
Perhaps your picture is too large (data-wise)? Maybe it is an incompatible format? (JPG, PNG will work, and likely GIF also, but some of the older ones may not.) Maybe try from a different web browser?
I’m sorry its giving you such trouble!
An interesting one Lucille, I sit on the fence I think.
Most of the time I preferred to blend in( more a total immersion!)
But there are times when someone makes a kind remark on my appearance I just want to be seen by everyone. But then I blush and go back into my anonymous cloak.
Jo. xx
If you have the confidence, courage, a passing feminine style and behaviour needed to stand out in a positive way, then be the femme star and stand out. I think transgender women are most concerned and sometimes afraid of standing out in a negative way, therefor mostly trying to blend-in more than taking the sometimes risky and scary step to stand out. It is to learn how to be a naturally a woman with confidence which is important for transgender women.
*EXACTLY* Regina!!
An interesting question to answer, I’d probably say I stand out. I tend to not go full crossdresser (Skirt & Heels, Breasts)), but I’ll put on bold feminine makeup, cute fashionable clothing along with flats or boots and my MK handbag. I want to present myself as the girly girl I feel on the inside even when I’m in “guy mode” (I put it in quotes because my guy mode is much like my girl mode except without heels, skirts or breasts). So I guess I’d put it as stand out?
It is soo hard to not stand out because only a few young girls dress sexy most of the women now dress in sweat pants or PJs and a dull top. It is very uncommon to see a women in a skirt or dress wearing heels. This is the way I would like to dress so I guess I would stand out and I don’t want to do that
Hi guys I just get dressed and ready and go out and show off what i have if people dont like it they can go %&^$ themselves. I go out for me i know i look good that is all that matters, and if you had boobs like mine wouldnt you show them off.
YES!