Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
If so, I think you’re making a mistake.
Instead of worrying about passing vs. not passing, my advice has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead.
But lately, I’ve been wondering…
Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal?
As a cisgender (genetic) woman, the last thing I want to do is blend in!
After all, what’s the point of wearing cute clothes, having a fabulous hairstyle, or doing your makeup if nobody notices?
I believe it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out.
Does your femme self share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
Do you enjoy attracting positive attention when en femme?
Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love going out and being accepted as a woman.
I love to stand out of the crowd and be recognized as a gay drag queen or male in women’s clothes, makeup, heels etc. I have even been asked in public by women if I would do they’re makeup and hair. So exciting.
For years I was afraid to walk even to close to a window much less in public. When I did get the courage I was a complete disaster. It wasn’t until I quit trying so hard to “pass” sand just be Kylie. I’m not fooling anything into believing I’m a genetic girl but I’ve since started to develop my own feminine style and I’m very proud of the girl/woman/lady that Kylie has become and continues to grow everyday. A lady stopped dead in her tracks after seeing me and compliment me on how cute I looked and how well put together I was, In front of everyone who agreed and said the nicest things, although completely red blushing, it was my moment, I was one of the girls! I take my femininity very seriously. As of now everything is in place so that I can be a girl full time and I’m sooo excite. I got my first mail yesterday addressed to Kylie, omg guys the butterflies still haven’t stopped. It all boils down to confidence girls. Don’t worry about being able to “pass” and just be your best you girls. Regardless what anyone thinks or says Im Kylie, I’m a girl. I’m all girl!!!! And I absolutely love being a pretty/elegant Dress wearing, high heel lovin, covered in satin and lace Girlie Girl thanks Ms Lucille and Ms Val! I love you guys soooo very much
Stand out!!! I’m full time female, but I am not fooling anyone. No one thinks that I am a genetic woman, but I still get lots of nice compliments from women and men. I love that so much. It makes me very happy.
Hi love to go as a woman just think that people would say that’s a trans only been out in my car and taking photos on back garden this is me Jessie
Well, Jessie you look fantastic!