Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
If so, I think you’re making a mistake.
Instead of worrying about passing vs. not passing, my advice has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead.
But lately, I’ve been wondering…
Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal?
After all, what’s the point of wearing cute clothes, having a fabulous hairstyle, or doing your makeup if nobody notices?
I believe it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out.
Does your femme self share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
Do you enjoy attracting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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Actually it all depends on the situation. Mostly I would wish to blend in until I got my self confidence built up to where I am not scared being out in public dressed. However, once my confidence builds, I would love to stand out and have men ogle after me.
I think it depends on situation. If I was going to a club, I would want to stand out some…. Walmart, blend in 🙂
I chose “Blend In” but I do need to qualify that answer. I’m 66 years old so I DON’T dress like a ‘working girl’ or teenager but I also don’t wear pants or anything else that resembles men’s wear when I’m out in public.
I’m always in a nice dress or skirt and top combination with heels and makeup. I usually see a few other women (GG or other) dressed as I am when I’m out. It’s nice to know that there are still a few of us who like to be dressed up and look pretty when we are out shopping.
I prefer to blend in. I am just beginning transition and want to feel free, not looked as being different.
Louise
As being born male,I have alway’s been a petite male. For reaching my present age, I’am a 5’10” and my weight has always been 130 to 140 lbs. As of today I have more female hormones than a male should. Was tested when I reached 21 years old. I love my Feminine Figure..my waist is a 26 and inseam 34. I can fit into a size 5 in panties and skinny jeans, my bra size is 36 C. I love and enjoy transforming into a female. So, I can blend in…
It is hard even to blend in. I mean i look like Socrates trying to score a goal. I know what this story will lead to and i hope that i can get a much needed makeover one day. I love to look nice and presentable in public arenas so i am going to get what i want with persistance.