Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not passing?
Or if you’re out, do you allow your happiness to be determined by how passable you are?
If so, I think you’re making a mistake.
Instead of worrying about passing vs. not passing, my advice has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead.
But lately, I’ve been wondering…
Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal?
As a genetic (cisgender) woman, the last thing I want to do is blend in!
After all, what’s the point of wearing cute clothes, getting a fabulous haircut, or doing your makeup if nobody notices?
I believe it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out.
Does your femme self share this desire?
This is a juicy topic, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
Do you enjoy attracting positive attention when en femme?
Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
Loading ...
tell me please , what do you think happens , do I blend in or stand out ?
The point is to stand out as a beautiful woman that we are period your a girl inside and out just try to be the best version of you that u can be i get are you a man or a woman alot i say 100% female they dont need to know my plumbing unless we get intimate lol
I tent to do both blend in with crowds while standing out at same time by wearing certain clothes when chating with guest or people letting them im there
I absolutely want to blend in with other people.
I like to be seen as just another girl who’s doing what girls do weather it’s wearing a pair of jeans and t’shirt out getting somefast food or wearing a skirt and blouse with heels out shopping at the mall. I try to make myself look like any other girl doing the same thing
I pride myself in being able to blend in
Hi everyone well I guess it is a little of both. I want to blend in as a “normal” female but I want to stand out as Robyn if that makes any sense. I dont over do it but I do little things that makes mt femme self Robyn stand out while looking like a normal female walking down the street. Love and kisses Robyn
Here is a pic before makeup and before I went out.
I came out in 2010 as a y girl and slowly started the transition route, after a varied long relationship with drs shrinks and surgeons plus obligation rules of living full time working in public view the charity shop scam to see if you can handle it and the hormones. You have to be shy to blend in and be bold to stand out. I prefer to blend into the world daytimes as the world desires but on an evening I prefer stepping up to the bar to get noticed, the downside to me is all this flamming up is going to be wasted owing to a genetic issue concerning bas defrens gonads and pituary gland I will never be able to transition into a full woman I must remain Transgender. And therefore for me and many others in my situation we must blend into the world in order to create an illusion of normality
I am new to transition. I came out in September. I live as Angela except for work. (Changing careers). When I go out and it is very frequent I am Neevouse but then I relax. I find I get many juicy looks and not from because I am trans but because I am told by many I look really good or I’mm sexy and so on. I dress to pass as in as others wear. I’m loving it! So I would say I love to stand out but not too much, just enough to turn a few heads.
Your very pretty i do the same your carrying the same attitude i to your style its the real you shinning through for me i lile to go really wild when im going to a party or whatever but my normal dress is that of a 20yr girl everyday