Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
If so, I think you’re making a mistake.
Instead of worrying about passing vs. not passing, my advice has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead.
But lately, I’ve been wondering…
Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal?
As a cisgender (genetic) woman, the last thing I want to do is blend in!
After all, what’s the point of wearing cute clothes, having a fabulous hairstyle, or doing your makeup if nobody notices?
I believe it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out.
Does your femme self share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
Do you enjoy attracting positive attention when en femme?
Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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Most transwomen stand out to begin with. It’s harder to blend in. I’m really not into drawing attention to myself. It makes me feel too self conscious and then anxiety soon follows. I have noticed that the more comfortable I feel, the more comfortable people are around me and vice versa. Blending in doesn’t mean you can’t look attractive and you don’t have to try to be unique to stand out because you’re already standing out because you are unique.