Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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Being over 6 feet tall, then I have very little option but to stand out. I try to make the best of it and feel my female side is far more confident than my male side.
i myself like option of doing both so i wear certain clothes of now an past which work’s for me also depends on which kinda people I’m around rather it’s formal or just reg thing by wearing shirt n pants or shorts to reg and if formal nice dress or skirt with real nice blouse matching earrings sorry no pictures
When I go out it is usually in the ‘safe’ areas of big cities in the evenings where I can act and behave like a teenage girl, when I am neither of those. So I do stand out both in my choice of an inappropiate dress sense, a provocative young style.
If in town during the day then of couse I would try to blend in, usually.
Hi, when I go out, i love to be noticed. I dont mean in the trashy way, although I have some very short skirts, its part of the experience.
Jill
great answer. Nothing better to me than being treated as a woman i had many men hold the door for me. I had on the black tight pants you see a lot of ladies wearing turtle neck top and heels full make up etc.
I love blending in and just being a woman among women in the street. Privately, I do flirt and show off my best assets (legs) and when I’ve attracted men it was a morale booster… Funniy, though I still prefer women interested in the transgender world.
I love to stand out! Once I was nervous about being seen but now I love to be noticed. Like some of the other girls commenting here, the first time a man flirted with me my spirits soared! It feels so fabulous to be seen as desirable and feminine and a really positive validation of my womanhood!
When I dress to go out I try to dress to create a wanton desire from those I meet or pass by. I have had genetic females asking me on my makeup and why I dress simple but yet dress with intrigue. Its fun doing it and I do meet quite a few people so I would say I blend in with one detail that stands out to be noticed. My voice was very passable up to about 10 years ago when an accident damaged my vocal cord so sometimes its good and sometimes its not, Honesty has opened many doors as well.
I go outside each and every day however I want. Because of the simple reason that I’m no longer male in my friends eyes or my own. Ihadf someone make a rude comment at walmart yesterday. My reply was why are you making your problem, my problem. I had failed to see their point we I remembered that I had like a seven day growth on my beard. ooops I left in such a rush that I forgot to shave, oh well, my point being that it doesn’t matter how you look as long as your comfortable with yourself. Aside from me shaving with or without makeup on I’m comfortable in my own skin. I don’t think about it and if there’s someone that has a problem with you , so what there’s always some yahoo that will. Get over it and be true to yourself. Who cares, as Women we no longer live in a box of conformity like guys do we dress and live however we see fit. Best of all no one that really matters might make a comment and it doesn’t affect our lives.
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