Being a girl comes with some pretty great perks… high heels, lipstick, lingerie, and let’s not forget – BRAS!
Bras offer endless options for expressing your femininity. And that’s where things can get tricky! With so many sizes and styles to choose from, it’s easy to go wrong.
Do you know what to do and what NOT to do when it comes to bras for crossdressers and MTF trans women? Here are 6 do’s and don’ts of wearing a bra!
1. DO Wear The Right Size
Did you know that there’s an 80% chance you’re wearing the wrong size bra? A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and unflattering – and who needs that?
Bra sizing is complicated, so I suggest getting professionally fitted if at all possible. (Many shops are happy to provide this service to their transgender and crossdresser clientele.)
If you prefer to do it yourself, check out my previous article on how to find your MTF bra size.
2. DON’T Let Back Bulge Ruin Your Look
One of the dreaded side effects of wearing a bra is back bulge. This is especially common if you carry extra weight in your upper body. Here are 3 tips for minimizing back bulge:
- Wear a larger band size. A band that’s too tight will cause bulging, so go up a size. For example, from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Look for a bra with extra stretch. Bras made with smooth, stretchy fabrics don’t dig in as much as stiffer bras.
- Try a longline bra. Longline bras have a wider band that extends down the torso to help eliminate back bulge.
3. DO Choose The Right Style
While choosing the right bra size is important, so too is the style. The options are nearly endless! Some of the style details to consider include:
- Padded vs. unpadded
- Underwire vs. wireless
- Cut of the bra cups (low cut, full cut, balconette, etc.)
- Front clasp vs. back clasp
- Straps (strapless, racerback, convertible, etc.)
- Fabric (cotton, satin, lace, etc.)
- Color
Which style is best depends on what you’ll be wearing, as well as your natural breast shape and body type.
For a breakdown of suitable styles, see my article on the Top 7 Bra Styles Every Crossdresser and MTF Transgender Woman Should Own.
4. DON’T Be Boring
While you should definitely own some basic bras, why stop there?
Bras offer endless options for expressing your style, so have fun and experiment with different colors, fabrics, and trimmings! (Just be careful what you wear them with as frilly details can show through clothes.)
5. DON’T Ruin Your Bra In The Wash
Bras are delicate objects, so they need to be properly cared for. You shouldn’t simply toss your bra in the wash with the rest of your clothes. Here are some tips to ensure that your bra stays in good shape for as long as possible:
- Hand wash your bra if possible. This is the best way to extend the life of your bra.
- Use a bra wash bag. This keeps the hooks from snagging and prevents your bra from getting tangled in the washing machine.
- Air dry your bra. Bras should never be put in the dryer, so hang them to dry instead.
6. DO Replace Your Bra When It’s Time
You take care of your bra, it should last a good while. However, keep in mind that bras do have a limited life span. (Expect an average of 6-12 months if you wear it regularly.)
Here are signs that your bra needs to be replaced:
- The bra straps are stretched out.
- The bra no longer fits as well as it used to.
- The bra has lost its shape.
- The bra feels uncomfortable.
Bras! We just can’t get enough
Now that we’ve got the dos and don’ts worked out, the only thing left to do is enjoy your beautiful bra… And maybe go out and buy some new ones!
Since a girl can never have too many bras, I’d love to know…
How many bras do you own? Are you a basic one-bra kinda gal? Or do you have a bra to match your every mood?
Take my poll and tell me about your favorite bra below!
Love,
Lucille
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i have many brea bras for my breastforms and others for my natural b cup breasts i find playtex bras fit very well they cover and hold my breasts very well
My top tips ;
– Buy cheap until you know your size
– The only difference between an uncomfortable wired bra and a perfectly comfortable form fitting bra is a pair of embroidery scissors
– I wash my bras in a pillowcase
^^
Push up bras of course
I wear a sports bra most of the time and in size large to hold my breast forms in place
I’ve been trying to look for is this answer and I think your answer that for me will a sports bra hold my breast forms in place so I don’t have to stick them on my body with tape or glue
I try to avoid tape or adhesive I have bought 2 warner bras cup one size smaller to hold my breast forms in place.(C cup breasts Warner 40B Bras, They work great. Get these bras at Walmart.
I have just discovered “bralettes”. What a wonderful invention. So pretty, so light, so sweet! Now I can really be the woman I want to be! I am so happy! Now, to find a husband . . . .
Roxanne Lanyon
“Roxanne”…”Sweetie”…You are really “Sexy & Beautiful”…I would love to be your “Husband & Wife” !!!
I would adore to meet you, dear.
Your Quivering Roxanne
Oh Honey, I do need a husband! I want to be so good and attractive to a sweet, gentle man!
Roxanne Lanyon
love to chat to you stevie
Stevie, e-mail me! mcanoe84@yahoo.com
Love, Roxanne
Hello I’m a transgender I wear full time women clothe but I couldn’t find my feet size lady shoe how can I solve it and I want to learn how can I do my makeup perfectly?
I googled several times for what l was looking for, l was looking for knee high boots, found several sites that sold them, that is an easy way to do it.
If you still wish to wear a “tighter” bra use a proper bra extender because it really does help, I have to use them and don’t worry about the colors not matching because the extenders are made in different colors and can go from one row of hooks to over 12.
New to dressing in women’s clothes, not new to wearing bras!
Two problems I’m having.
I want to buy panties for the new dress I have, but I have no clue how to size them. I suspect I’d have to buy it if I tried it!
I’d love to get some Femm shoes but my foot is an 18 men’s. I’m having lots of trouble finding a shop that does custom orders.
Measure your hip circumference because that’s what most panty sizes are based on from ther you can find size charts on Google. Get fits in and around your measured size and test which you like best