Feeling feminine is as easy as slipping into a beautiful bra.
However, it’s not always easy to get the right fit since most bras aren’t designed with crossdressers and transgender women in mind.
But fear not, because there ARE solutions!
In this blog post, I share how to solve your 7 biggest bra problems. Discover how to find the perfect fit and style, so you and “your girls” can look your absolute best.
Problem #1: Wrinkled Or Gapping Bra Cups
Bra cups that don’t lay smooth are a common problem. Fortunately, there are two easy fixes:
- Go down a cup size. The main reason for wrinkles is that your breasts don’t fill out the bra cups. Try going down a cup size. For example, from a 38B to a 38A.
- Choose a demi bra instead of a full coverage bra. Full coverage bras often have extra space at the top of the cup. A demi bra that’s cut lower eliminates this problem.
Problem #2: Can’t Find A Bra My Size
If you opt not to wear breast forms with your bra, it can be tricky to find the perfect fit. Crossdressers and transgender women often struggle to find bras with small cups and large band sizes, as they are not commonly available.
Luckily, I’ve curated a list of bra options specifically catering to those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions:
- Bodycon Multiway Bra – latte – Band sizes 40-46, Cup Sizes B-G
- Flatter Me Bra – Band sizes 40-46, Cup sizes AA-B
- Leading Lady Scallop Lace Bra – Band sizes 36-48, Cup sizes A-DD
- Prima Donna Couture Bra – Band sizes 38-48, Cup sizes B-H
Problem #3: Back Bulge
Another common issue many face is back bulge, often caused by back fat or an ill-fitting bra. So, how can you bid farewell to this dreaded problem?
- Opt for a larger band size. Wearing a band that’s too tight can lead to bulging. Increase your band size by going up one size, such as from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Seek bras with flexibility. Look for bras crafted from smooth and stretchy fabrics. These types of bras are less likely to dig into your skin compared to stiffer ones.
- Give longline bras a try. Longline bras feature a wider band that aids in eliminating back bulge. This design provides additional support and helps create a smooth silhouette.
Problem #4: Wide-set Breasts
Wide-set breasts can be a common concern for crossdressers and transgender women due to having a broader rib cage. This can pose two challenges: finding a properly fitting bra and achieving the desired cleavage.
Here are four solutions tailored to wide-set breasts:
- Look for pushup pads. A bra with padding on the sides helps push the breasts together.
- Wear a wireless bra. Underwires can be uncomfortable if they’re not properly centered beneath the breasts. In this case, a wireless bra will fit you better.
- Choose a bra with a wide center panel. The wider the center panel (the triangle-shaped area between the bra cups), the better the bra will fit.
- Find a front closure bra. Front closure tend to have wider-set cups due to the center clasp.
Problem #5: Bra Straps Fall Down
Nothing is more annoying than straps that don’t stay put. Here’s how to solve this problem:
- Tighten the bra straps. Bra straps stretch out over time, so they should be tightened every other month or so.
- Look for silicone bra straps. Some bras have a silicone lining on the straps that helps keep them in place. You can also purchase silicone bra strap cushions that can be worn with any bra.
- Try a different bra style. Balconette and plunge bras tend to have wider straps that are prone to falling. Instead, look for a bra with a racerback or crisscross straps.
Problem #6: Breast Forms Don’t Stay In Place
When it comes to wearing breast forms, choosing the right bra is crucial. Here are five essential tips to guide you:
- Look for a pocket bra. Opt for a bra with built-in pockets specifically designed to hold the breast forms securely in place.
- Go for a full coverage. Another option is a full coverage bra. The cups should fully cover the breast forms for a seamless look.
- Opt for underwires. Select bras with underwires for added support and shape, especially if you are wearing heavy or large forms.
- Ensure a snug bra band. This provides support for the breast forms. To test, put a finger under the band between your breasts. If you can fit two or more fingers, the band is too loose. Tighten it or go down a band size.
- Avoid low cut bras. Low cut bras don’t have enough coverage to support the breast forms. Choose a full coverage bra instead.
- Avoid bras that are too small. Bras that are too small can damage your breast forms. Look for a bra that fits you properly.
Problem #7: Bra Shows Through Clothing
Just like visible panty lines, a bra that peeks through your clothes isn’t exactly fashionable (unless, of course, that’s the look you’re going for).
Here’s how to ensure your bra stays discreetly concealed:
- Look for bras with smooth cups and minimal details. Lacy fabrics and trimmings are pretty, but they often show through lightweight fabrics.
- Wear a black or skin tone bra. The black bra should be worn under dark clothing, while a nude or skin tone bra words best with light colors. Avoid white bras since these tend to show through clothing.
What are YOUR biggest bra problems?
Hopefully your biggest bra problem now is having too many bras and too little time!
But if you have any bra woes that weren’t covered, share them below so we can help. And if you have any other tips to add to this list, I’d love to hear them!
Love,
Lucille
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i find it hard to find 38a cup bras, can anyone help me?
Roamens and Womenwithin have 38 and 40 A bras.
Found one site with AA, but have to find the site again.
Sizes vary, where an A at two sites is an A at one but more like a B at another.
Hope this helps.
Jim
Lula Lu.
My problem with bras is the ones that have the strap adjusters in the back. I prefer the front adjusters, less detectable at work. At home? Doesn’t matter.
I have found that buying a bra extender is an alternative to going up a band size – especially if the bra you want isn’t available in your size.
I Love Buying Cami’s that have 2 ply tops !!!
Little Slit on the inside ply & Form slides right in !!
Thanks to Flat2Fem and your encouragement over the years to “stay with it”, I went from 35-34-35 in late 2009 to 39-31-35 where I have been since 2013. In 2014 I finally got over my hesitancy and did a professional bra-fitting thru Macy’s MyStylist.com personal shopper service and I’m a 38C but also fit sexy-nicely into some cute 38B padded push-up bras. Ladies do Flat2Fem, there’s nothing like putting away breast forms/bra pads forever!!! and feeling your own loose jiggly rounded breast tissue packed in tight and comfy to bras that fit and feel wonderful. I have even enjoyed lacy soft cup bras around the house and for sleeping, and of course a lovely padded sports bra for morning jogs or power walks. Thanks Lucille.
I wear a 38 b wireless bra. But still not a perfect fit. Need to be fitted by a professional. The information helps. Thanks for the good tips. Love lisa m.
My Husband, the Woman i am married to, has a whole drawer full of Shoulder Pads from tops and dresses over the years. Since She is self conscious about Her shoulder width, She never uses the pads.
However i find that they are just the right size and shape for me to use as “cleavage pads.”
Only not under or over my breasts. but to the side: between my breast and the underarm on either side.
That gives just enough push toward the breastbone, while i leave it to the bra itself to do the pushups.
theresa
“Theresa”…It so great that you support your Husband and his “Crossdressing”. Love, Paula
I was “professionally” fitted about 3 years ago and was told that I was a 38b. Felt kind of tight even at first but hey, the sales lady knows what she is talking about, right? After about 6 months in that size the tightness and bulging was starting to increase. I bought a 40c bra just to see what it felt like. Going up in size on the band and cup made it feel so comfy, as if I wasn’t even wearing a bra. Not only was i more comfortable, but knowing I went up a cup size made me feel great! Don’t know if this will help anyone but it worked for me! Love, Kelli