If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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you look very feminine and appealing. x.
not sure I adhere to these rules, but think the best things are confidence and a smile
At 71 yo, I dress as sexy & functional as I need to shop & go to lunch or visit family.
Still wearing 3-4″heels with stockings.
Don’t go more than 2″ above knees on dress /skirts. Will keep dressing as long as the female body is attractive. Pictures tell me the story. ..you decide.
Love the red hair T J! Very becoming and the white dress with pink is so cute. You accessorize so beautifully as well. Wish I could do that.
Love it when you get back to me. ..we need each other ‘s opinions to improve our look.
The dress is a light blue, and I went with pink: shoes, shrug & belt.
I’ve been told by one cretique, belts are “old school “. I disagree. I use many belts. I like jewelry. ..sorry. ..maybe too much.
Aceasories are easy for me. ..they’re Fun.
Going to a CD CAMP in Seattle in January!! I’m sure we’ll discuss all of these topics.
Keep in touch girl! I love hearing from you!
Wow, what a knockout!
At 74 I am striving for a classy but still sexy look. Even at 6 feet tall I can’t give up my 4 inch heels though.
How am I doing?
Here are the ” riske ” shots from last week end. ..hope they pass the sensors! Let me know what you think. ..always appreciate your opinions. Tried sending on Erie Sisters, not sure they got through.
T.J.
Yes, thanks for the quick response.
“T.J.Byron”. Don’t know how to do photos.
Hope you have a great Thanksgiving with your family. Does your family know “this side ” of you, as in spouse, siblings, grand kids, even Kids? ? How about the “crowd ” you run with? ?Look forward to hearing. ..T.J.
Heather :
Joined the Erie Sisters. ..working trying to navigate the site to respond.Left Lisa a “THXS ” for the opportunity to engage on the site.
Thanks for the referral. Have a good Thanksgiving, as we Both have Sooo much to be thankful for.
T.J.
Precious T J thanks for joining me to the ES site. Yes, it takes a little time to learn. What name did you register as? I looked for you but could not find a definite T J. Go to the member tab and in the search box enter Heather. I am Heather Lynn Evans. Hope you find me.
Sweetie, another great look!
More pics! !
Lovely. …TJ.
Sweetie, another great look!
More pics! !
Lovely. …TJ.
You Look HOT to Petra at Your YOUNG AGE. Petra Hope to be as BEAUTIFUL as You When That Young of AGE. Love Petra.
Thank you so much Petra, you are so sweet to post such a nice comment. I need to give much of the credit to Lucille and her wonderful tips and especially her Magic Makeup Program.
I’m 71, I also like my skirts just above the knee, you look lovely and feminine, you’re doing just great!
Thank you Robyn (such a lovely name)! Can’t thank you girls enough for the vote of confidence. Means so much.
And yes, above the knee is appealing. Always leave them wanting more! hehe
Love to you all, Heather
Dear Heather, you look gorgeous!
Thank you so much Salina. You are too kind!
I THINK I get it, but not nearly enough practice time.
You look very classy!
I think 50% of my closet is filled of clothes from Cato Fashions. Their clothes are the perfect equilibrium between sexy and elegance. Their XL size fit me perfect like tailor made clothes. The girls in my local store know me and they help me to pick my clothes like any other store. Ah their 10W shoes fit me perfect as well.
Karla
sparkle and class I hope
pic for comment
so sexy