If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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Since I was blessed with natural breast growth I like to show cleavage, plus I’m just a tee shirt and blue jeans kind of girl. Hope my dress is appropriate for a 47 year old. My boyfriend says i look good so I guess it’s all that matters right?
Girlfriend, I would go out with you anytime! ! You look Amazing, trust me. ..Enjoy Being You!
The red polkadot dress and black hair & hairstyle look gorgeous on you. Your most feminine, classy, and sexy outfit of all your pics.
❤️ Amber
Hi Lucille honey goodness girlfriend and girlfriend’s I don’t know if I’ll ever look sexy or if I really want to do that I don’t want to make any man’s day not in the least I want to look good maybe that is sexy I don’t mind a few extra pounds on my frame I don’t want to be real heavy either I Love jeans myself well leggings too I guess I like dresses too just not too short I grew up in the 70s and 80s midlength I think looks better mystery is sexy too I think and wedding gowns they are so beautiful I remember my mom’s light blue gown goodness I loved that dress and it even fit me quite well but then it was turned into crafts darn it I was so saddened by its demise they were very beautiful too but I wanted that dress so bad all lace of course at the time I had no hair well not long enough for me at least I don’t know if I’ll ever get to live the life I want to live in my older years I did have some success with a project of mine it got a lot of interest from an invention assistance firm but currently I most likely will not be able to get a parent search on it I’m just broke after bills and groceries there’s nothing left but I’ll never give up on either they were impressed with its creativity of design if that makes any sense lol anyway I Love You Girlfriend’s Love MJ
Well I cant say I dress sexy but I can say well dressed.
I have been watching you for several years now , and saw you grow up so nice . I think you will be a rose some day , but I also think you could use a bit of fashion help ! you have such a fine charm and I believe that it shows through . there are so many styles out there that would fit you quite well please put away the little girl and break out the silk and lace . with your looks you could go full vogue and knock them dead . I mean no disrespect or harm . I just find you exciting and worthy of the finer looks of a runway winner model .modify the make up and go vogue , you deserve it all and could bring it off !
Well dressed is more important in my opinion. It will catch the eye of who u want a lot quicker.chao, rox.
Here are some other pics of my first corset.
Well I do have 3 different styles of corsets. My second corset is a purple brocade long line waist training corset with garter tabs for wearing under clothing, I just have to get the removable garters for it. My first corset is a brown brocade corset belt also with garter tabs worn over clothing, I hade gotten for my first steampunk outfit, witch I need to get removable garters to use for both corsets. My third corset is another brown under bust corset that has straps and covers the back, I got to help with posture and for my second steampunk outfit.
This is the pic I meant to post.
Also. Corsets add to the sexy look at any age. Worn under a dress or skirt over stockings and garter belt. It can take 3inches off a waist, or less, give curves to body, and be tantalizing later on.Fredericks of holiwood for quality, color, style. Roxanne.
Yeah, I would be staring too! I’ve had moments like that…No Problem!
Enjoy the view!
A glimpse of stockings was thought to be shocking, but heaven knows, ” Anything Goes “…
I have some tops that you can see my nipples, is that acceptable.
Ok.
Not my sexiest look but when out to dinner my partner took a photo of me sitting down ,when we saw it afterwards and zoomed in i didnt notice i was showing a bit more than normal and realised why the guy opposite kept staring lol still hope it made his day
Hi Girls
How’s this for a 65 year old, yikes huh!?!?Fine for home fun, but I don’t think for going out in!?!?
Thank You Lucille!