A common mistake some crossdressers and transgender women make is dressing too sexy. This often looks ridiculous – ESPECIALLY as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age?
Absolutely not!
Instead, simply follow these 3 rules for dressing sexy at any age:
Rule #1: Show some skin (just not too much)
Short skirts and low cut tops are undeniably sexy, but you shouldn’t go too far with this. Here are a couple guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms to your sides.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust.
At the same time, you shouldn’t be TOO covered up since that just screams “old lady.” Show off your feminine assets, but do so in a tasteful and classy way.
Rule #2: Find the right proportions
Proportion refers to the way your clothes work together in length, width, size and volume.
For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look slutty.
- A long skirt paired with a long top looks dowdy.
- A full skirt paired with a full top makes you look heavy.
- A tight skirt paired with a tight top can make you look like a sausage (unless you have a perfect body!).
You should never go too far in any one direction. That means if you wear something tight or skimpy, you should balance things out with the rest of your outfit.
For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top.
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear luxurious fabrics
The final piece of the sexy puzzle is the fabrics you wear.
Think slutty and what comes to mind? A spandex skirt, barely there glittery top, and patent leather stripper boots, right?
Sexy, on the other hand, is associated with luxurious fabrics like silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final thoughts …
The bottom line is that you are NEVER too old to be your sexy femme self. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’ve love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo. 🙂
Love,
Lucille
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I love the ideas from this article. I’ve followed the suggestions and I think it helps. I am older (in my 60s), but have very nice, long legs and small firm ass that I love to show off. So I wear short tight skirts with hose and garter and high heels. I wear nice tops that don’t show too much because my upper body is more masculine. When I’m all dressed up with make-up and wig, I feel very feminine and sexy. Have to be discreet so don’t have any pictures.
Well I’m 53 years old I hope this looks good.
You look great!
Good Morning you look great
I love pin-up fashion.
She is feminine, beautiful and merciful to the character …
Looks very nice and in the right proportions .Someone read your advice and used it.
Hi Lucille, I love Korean fashion and a lot of the skirts do tend to be on the short side though. I am also at the top limit to fit into most of them. I bought this ensemble but sadly the jacket is a but too tight. My legs are pretty good too for someone just under 60.
The second picture is the outfit that I wore to see my psychologist in London. Being in Mayfair, London the outfit fitted right in. I was a bit self conscious but that’s really only because I haven’t had FFS yet. I know people won’t like it but I felt a million dollars even if was only about $100 in total.
I can highly recommend Aliexpress for good quality, cheap clothes and shoes with free postage. I rarely get an item through that is poor quality and you can read the reviews too.
I Love ❤️ Dressing up and love too be in beautiful wedding dresses
I feel like a hot sexy women
I Love ❤️ The Transformation m-f
Sexy Outfits
Love ❤️
Marisa K
This dress is so sexy in my opinion, also in my opinion that it really doesn’t matter what I wear I still look presentable and professional, and i still get a few dates. I remember growing up all my male “friends” call me a f@#got and the same guys want to sleep with me because of the way I dress as a woman, I get tons of compliments and some women don’t think I’m a male until I talk.
I love dressing up in sexy hot dress and going out.
Marisa, you look very hot in the pic. Love how the dress fits your body so well.
Sexy Lingerie is the way go I just love dressing up.
Love ❤️ Marisa
Love the bra and panties with stilettos. Very hot!
You look very beautiful