If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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Hi, Sarah here,
The place where I am living, wearing short or medium skirts are not possible but long or full skirts are easily available. I wear Pakistani or Indian dresses a lot. I also do wear full or long skirt with medium half sleeves or sleeveless top. Mostly my dresses are comfortable, less figure hugging
If you have legs that people compliment, show them off!!! I do balance them. But I am not afraid to show them off!!!
OK or not?
Thank you for this! That skirt longer than the tips of our fingers is a great…tip:) Seriously this was very helpful.
I’m just an older trans lady (79!). I just try to blend in as any other woman and try to look as feminine as possible without trying to over do it. So far it works for me! I’m always treated like a lady when I am out, which is a lot! Suzy
Fabulous for a lady 2 years my senior
It’s great to see we can still rock it at our age. Merely a number of course.
At 75, I’m trying my best! Love to all!
Thank you for sharing. I dress for the occasion and the attendees. sorry, I tend to show more skin. I love to meet you if you are in the west coast.
Gorgeous babe xxx
I love this website and I love being a girl… been dressing since I was 9 years old… always mistaken for a little girl because I was very petite and dainty for a boy
Hi Tracyanne, you look great! Thank you for being here ❤️
Tracy you look so naturally feminine and beautiful xxx
Omg I’ve been cross dressing for years and years love it so so much and how much I’d love to find another girl like me who could help me with my makeup and then two of us could go out shopping I’m very very content when I get dressed I’m always shopping on Amazon so many gourgous dresses and more I really really feel like a WOMAN it really makes me feel better id love to transition so so much and live my life as amber I’m from Long Island New York in case anyone wants to chat and possibly meet hope to hear from some girls have a gourgous day besafe becareful and just love the woman you love to be
Dear Ambermaria.
May I please say that I liked
reading your comments.
I am a girl like you,
and would like to ask for us
to chat and get acquainted
together.
I love shopping ️
It sounds like we may have
a lot in common.
I am in the N Y Metro area also.
I hope to hear from you soon.
Happy Holidays.
Thank you.