Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I would have to say my seamed vintage nylons with either a nice six strap suspender belt, girdle or corsolette plus i love a nice silky bra and knickers set.
Caroline (cd)
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I love a lot of lingerie (mostly VS), but my favorite I feel most feminine in is…black satin VS bra (36D), black VS satin garter, black VS stockings and a nice and tight black slip (which a lot of ladies do not wear anymore)
Hi Tanya
Normally when I’m dressed, I have one of my full slips on too. Occasionally if the slip is to long, I’ll go without. But when I do, I feel nearly naked LOL .
Oh I’m on the same page as you sister! My man can’t keep his hands off me when I wear that same combo from VS! I love a long slip and heals with it to!
My most fave piece is my corset, I’m still working on my hourglass figure (countless exercises per week lol), however at this moment in time it gives me a great shape and makes me feel very feminine
Kisses
Davina
You look great girlfriend!
SOOO<CUITE
I too love corsets! They are wonderful at pulling this together! Of course fitting properly in those corsets means quite a lot. I also love cami’s and ruffled undies.
You look awesome:)
i have a couple of polka dot dresses. my favorite lingeries are the matching polka dot bra and lace hipster. i love this set so much i want to wear them out in public.
Bra, garter belts, stockings
My favorite piece of undergarments are my garter belts to my nylons. I have nice legs and they seem to show off my assets the best. veronnica
I love wearing anything or all things female.
it is very helipful to become a girl