Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I was surprised, happily so, to discover that i have been buying the wrong bra cup size. ouch. My ego said that i was a c cup when infact i am a c, sigh
However my favorite linger.. is a camisol giggle. ever your fan Rhonda
I wear underwire bras and satin full size panties.
I love to wear lacy camisoles under all my daily clothing whether in girl or guy mode. It is wonderful to have my almost B cup breasts nestled into a lacy bra and camisole and matching panty.
Although I am a male, I have worn a bra almost daily since I was nine years old, other than my time in military service. I was told to wear one by a doctor because I did have actual breasts. Along with my bra I also wear satin panties almost every day. Those do help me to feel more like Stephanie. And my late wife encouraged to wear lingerie as my usual underwear!
My pink satin babydoll romper.
Love that romper real sexy Where can I buy one I live in Australia I love a nice lacy bra and matching panties love baby pink, red, black, and baby blue I whare every day love the feel on my skin sleep at night in a nightie I love it when I dress in the morning in my bra and panties as my nipples jump out as I put my sexy lace bra on so nice feel all woman I wouldn’t have it any other way love being girly
Satin romper, that’s really cute.
Who doesn’t love pretty lingerie? I generally have on a matching bra and panties until it bedtime. Then, I get into something comfy. It’s all about getting some good sleep at that point. I take great care of those sneaky little hair issues with some Nair Shower Power Max as soon as they pop up.
Hi Lucille,
I love all my femme clothes immensely but my cream silk panties with delicate lace edging are my favourites, they fit like a glove and just look superb.
Love the feel of a tightly cinched 6 strap leather corset with black seamed silky stockings in red 5″ high heels. Hourglass figure pushing up my breasts make me feel very femme.