Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Bra and panties and paintyhose make it the best. Love it shanna.
Nothing really makes me connect with and feel more feminine then a really pretty matching bra and panties set. Just makes me feel good!
Rene you look so great in this photo! I really like you nail polish as well. You are very gorgeous and I’m sure you don’t have any problems finding a man.
Very sexy fem and passable sooo jealous
Wow! Your Gorgeous!
You look so relaxed and happy, not to mention sexy
You have choose an elegant and hot red colour.Beautifull and suggestive.
Fantastic your photo, you have a great woman style.I like.
Thank you so much Isis, that is very sweet of you.
My favorites are bras and matching panties always day and nite
Hi Lucille, I wanted to say thanks for talking about real things. Your blog and the stepping out program don’t just start and stop with ‘you need to do this with your voice’ or ‘wear this’. It’s great! Thanks so much, always informative and real.
Hmmmmm, now lingerie? I loooove bright colours like purples and pinks and blues, but feel sexiest in thin black boy cut panties with the tiniest little accents like a bow or a frill.
At 68, no one save my spouse is going to see what is under my clothing. I spend my money on looking good walking down the street, not on being a good looking street walker.
I do not want imply that I want to be the lingerie policewoman. If you feel good wearing good quality sexy lingerie – do it.
I love wearing pantyhose and leggens the most I haven’t found the right size bra yet .
There is nothing sexier and more comfortable than lingerie that fits!
Especially when your in public. No matter where, a night club, the grocery store check out line with teenage clerks checking you out or at Services on Sunday. You don’t want to be tugging and pulling just so you can look sexy, your not! Do you see Bio woman in public pulling and tugging? No, either they suffer in silence or they don’t wear the garment.
I have one Bra that’s actually one size too big in the band width
(boobs are fine). Disrobing one night I commented to myself, ” I’ve had this bra on for 17 hrs today. That’s comfort!
For you young and restless ladies of genderland, listen to Lucille’s suggestions and advise and you will be a prettier and happier “gurl” for it. NO PLUG INTENDED
Wish I had someone like her (and a PC) when I came out in 1965. Yeah, I’m an old fart and have been dressing for a long time and my need to dress never went away for me and I thank God to this day.
Wish I could figure out how to post a photo here but then old farts are not that computer savvy anyway.
Look Attractive
Dorothy Thomas
Tucson, AZ
Dorothy, in this picture, you look pretty good.
I wear bra panties and nylons everyday even when I have to dress as a man. I have no male undets.