Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Without a shadow of a doubt it’s a good fitting underwire bra with my breast forms correctly inserted – with my own bogy flesh pulled up a little, the cleavage looks real. In second place are well fitting silky panties – full panties – whic I wear every day of the week.
I love lacey bras and panties. My favorite is a purple and pink. My two favorite colors. The back of the panties are black lace. And the bra is a slight push up to give just a little boost to the girls. I have been taking herbs to grow my breasts and it has been working. They make me feel utra fem now in lingerie.
What herbs are you taking, and how long did it take for you to see results?
My favorite is bras,I’ve got them fitting very well,breast forms or not.,and keep impeccably groomed.!!
It is so nice to have bras that fit just right.I also love pantyhose in all colors and shades. Keep up the great work that you do ,Lucille….Hugs to you
I love satin pink babydoll… and bridal underwear…
Lucille Sorella thank you for your best website…thank you…
It’s easier to show my favorite then explain it. I love to slip this on after a nice bath and be freshly shaven all over. I just love the feel of not only my nightie, but the lovely feeling on silky smooth legs.
wow your beautiful!
You look so beautiful
You are very pretty darling
Kathleen
You are sooo pretty my dear. Love your hair
Kathleen,
You are so pretty and feminine. I too enjoy a clean shaven body and wearing pretty lingerie around the house. I love feeling girly, as do you.
Where is home for you? I live in Sarasota, Florida.
Hugs,
Anne
I Love wearing Bras and panties and pantyhose.. my favorite is pink set Br makes me look and feel very Fem and I love the sensations and compliments I ge about mya and panty I also love violet fushia and purple I prefer softer colors I flatters my form more.. some times I mix colors to be different.. it makes me look and feel very Fem.. I love the compliments I get about my curves and form..i’m very well developed and bras make me look proper.. Love you Lucille.. Love you All.. Love Brooke
Lucille,
I am mostly a bra and panty girl….add in a garter belt, stockings, and heels and this trans woman has got your attention…..lol.
Jessica