Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love pink babydoll style nighties and frilly full bottom panties. But my legs are all scared and I feel guilty when i dress this way.
I love the bra filled with my favorite c boobies they fit perfectly, plus iam growing every day.can’t wait for them to fill my bra,so exciting!!!
While not specifically a piece of lingerie per say… but wearing pink panties and bra with my knee high leather boots totally rock my world
I have sized my self and then went out and got fitted at Frederick’s and at Victoria Secrets both said 42 to 44 and I am in-between B to C cup.
Frederick’s didn’t have and thing my size but Victoria Secrets tried an extender with 38 D witch seem too big to me. I when out later a store and got few cheap bras at 38 C with extender and they seem to fit but it struck me a 40 C or B might work.
I have few good one at 42 B and CACIQUE that 44 B but need a 42 in that same style but I have not found it.
Shopping on line is scary as you don’t get to feel and try it on. I have no issues going still dress male to try on clothing or bras. i met with no issue so far. I been to Walmart as they cheap and well they seem to have not issue with me walking up to the room and trying them on and even take me to womans fitting room.
Victoria Secrets was very nice and said they wish they carried bras my size but the stores only carry up to 38D in the mall stores online they carry bigger.
the other issue is find some thing sexy.. once you go pass 38 or 40 in any cup it seem the want to sell you only Granny bras no sexy ones or they give you Maternity bras..
WOW yes 42 to 44 is big band but really if the cup is A,B or C does not you having a kid always.
And of course having live male I was clueless to female clothing cost.SORRY SO VERY SORRY).
Now that I feel the change to life is to dress female at time I finding that woman have been getting shafted on cost and Trans-genders are getting it worse. Shopped at few online site and say bras that were way more than just going to a store and trying a few on till you find the right ones.
Shoes by accident I found a pair that some had bough and the wrong size were in side box said 8.5 but the shoes were flats leather shoes size 9.5 wide. fits prefect . I then went in walmart again and found some Pumps same size not sure bit don’t thing they leather but i got daring as the 3.5/ 4″ heels. and they fit well but I am not learning to walk in them did cause some pain but it was due to standing wrong.
Find the right thing to ware and feel sexy and all is hard when you are of a size that isn’t norm to a female body type. I have growing breast. but I am also losing weight.
Lingerie would be lovely to have but just finding bras and panties that fit well is a real chore as it not breaking the bank.
super gorgeous = you darling!
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Hi… i love bride Babydoll lingerie… and every lingeries…
i have tow babydoll in pink and white color… very lovely…
thank you Lucille Sorella. i love you…
I am with you on that. I gives me an exotic feeling that I love
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Wow, are you ever so Gorgeous, Lovely Melissa!
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I love suspenders, stockings, corsets, all of it but the one thing I believe makes it all 1000% better, even if ur not wearing a thing- SHOES! In my view, no shoes, no sexy. I’m so glad I found this site. Thank U!
I love bras. They are my favorite! I may be different from some of my sisters; I love full coverage, traditional bras. My favorite right now is a Vanity Fair, 36D full coverage. I love the way I look with tight fitting tops over my fully filled bras.