As time goes by, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that it’s “too late” for certain opportunities.
Have you ever thought that it’s too late for you to step out en femme, begin your transition, or simply look as beautiful and feminine as you feel on the inside?
I firmly believe that it’s NEVER too late to pursue your feminine dreams. No matter what your age or situation, there’s no better time than now to express your fab femme self.
Keep reading for 7 reasons why it’s NOT too late for your male to female transformation!
1. There are more positive transgender role models than ever before
From Laverne Cox (transgender actress and advocate) to Danica Roem (first transgender woman to win a state seat), there are more transgender women in the public eye than ever before. What better time to join these role models in spreading awareness?
2. With age comes wisdom and experience
Sure, we’d all love to look 22 forever. But age comes with some pretty great perks – namely wisdom and experience. There’s nothing that can’t benefit from a dose of wisdom and experience, including your male to female journey.
3. 50 is the new 30 and 70 is the new 50
Despite our youth obsessed society, there are so many gorgeous female icons in their 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond. Jennifer Lopez, Christie Brinkley, Helen Mirror, Raquel Welch, and countless others prove that there’s no expiration on beauty and femininity.
4. You care less about what others think
The older you get, the less you care about what others think of you. (Remember all those dramas in high school?) It’s incredibly liberating to let go of caring about the opinions of others.
5. These pioneers prove it’s never too late to reinvent yourself
There are so many examples of people who started over and created amazing success later in life. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Top designer Vera Wang began her fashion career at age 40.
- Julia Child published her first book at age 39 and made her TV debut at age 51.
- Laura Ingalls Wilder (author of “Little House on the Prairie”) published her first novel at age 65.
- Anna Mary Robertson Moses (better known as Grandma Moses) began her painting career at age 78. In 2006, one of her paintings sold for $1.2 million.
6. It’s better to dare than have regrets
One day you will look back at your life. Would you rather have lived fully (and perhaps rustled a few feathers in the process) or be filled with regrets? The choice is yours to make TODAY.
7. There are more resources than ever before
From transgender and crossdressing support groups, websites, books, and services – to specialized products and procedures – there are more resources than ever that can benefit your feminine transformation or transition. Check out the Transgender/Crossdressing Resources page of this site for some ideas!
In conclusion
I hope this short post has convinced you that NOW is the perfect time to pursue your feminine dreams – whatever that might mean for you. It is absolutely not too late!
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic, so please share a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
I liked this line from my psychologist during my gender therapy. He explained that for us to decide what has to enable these difficult decisions is to realize the pain of remaining the same HAS to be greater than the pain of changing. That rang true and has guided me ever since. Transitioning for me has been about sacrifice and reward, then liberated to live authentically ♀️
Yo todavía sufro día con día el no atreverme a salir al mundo como lo que realmente soy internamente.
Tengo 65 años, mi pareja sabe mi condición pero no me apoya, ya dejé de hablar de eso con ella pues solo provoca peleas.
No tenemos relaciones sexuales porque ella NO quiere, a veces dormimos en la misma cama pero alejados, evitamos tocarnos.
Esto no es vida, nosotras tenemos un alma sencible, alma de mujer y al menos a mí, me duele mucho esto que me pasa, me dan muchísimas ganas de llorar y no lo puedo hacer.
Esto es un infierno que ojalá acabe pronto, sé que estoy en mi ocaso pero aún asi, me gustaría lograr mi sueño de ser mujer, si alguien tiene algún consejo, se lo agradecería mucho.
Besos de su amiga Julia.
Hola Julia, gracias por contarnos lo que vives y, creo que habemos muchas que pasamos por lo mismo. Te saludo con gusto y si quieres intercambiar experiencias, cin gusto a i me ancanatarñia hacerlo. un beso.
Hello everyone, New oh so very new to this and in all honesty not sure what I am doing, however I oddly have a good supporting system via my grown children.
So glad I found this place. Can some of you help and point me in the right direction. So much to learn, but mostly is the fear of looking silly. I don’t want to look masculine, never have. Now I’ve decided to embrace this. How do I become the beautiful woman I want to be.
It’s heartbreaking that so many of us weren’t able to find the courage or the means to transition until later in life. For so many years trying our best to adhere to the societal gender stereotype and enduring fears and anguish. All these years I had been isolated not only physically but psychologically because I couldn’t fit in or share my thoughts without risking ridicule. So many of us in our 50’s, 60’s and 70’s have endured this plight alone. If not now, then when?
Yes you are right , I’m one of them , I always want to be a woman , I sometimes feel cheated in life , I’m going on 55 and still trying to be a woman , it’s not easy , I been taking Swanson B.O. and bountiful breasts when I can afford it , I started out late but I hope I can persue being a woman , I want to look pretty and feel like a woman
Jennavnef, please beware of taking B.O. I was taking that when I had a blood clot (pulmonary embolism) that permanently damaged my lungs. I informed the doctor and they told me that B.O. had nothing to do with the blood clot. But the reason for the clot was undetermined. I have other health issues so it could have been some other reason or a combination of things. Nevertheless, I came close to dying. When you do it on your own, you’re taking a big risk. If you’re serious about feminization, seek a doctor’s supervision. The results you can achieve are better also. I know some are pressed for money, I am too. But again I’ll say, if not now, then when?
Thank u Morgan , I’ll be really careful , hopefully I’ll get some money saved and do this the right way so I won’t have health issues with my transformation, u too Morgan be careful , health always comes first , I hope u doing well
I am 71 and want so much to be “gurl” and have breast,
I know at my age I cant do the whole sex change but I am encouraged that other gurls are living their life as the have wanted to for so long.
as my email indicates I have wanted to feel pretty and feminine since I was 13, or earlier>
God bless you!
Well, beautiful ladies, it’s now my time. In two weeks I will turn 73. I’m in the second year of my transition, and God willing, will be totally complete by late spring. I have never felt freer nor happier in my entire life. The sense of freedom that one gets from finally being their true self is…well, intoxicating.
You see, I’ve worn many hats in my life trying to convince the world that I was a male. from being a veteran in the army to law enforcement. You know – macho stuff. And hating every single minute. From alcohol and drugs to attempted suicide: Anything to stop the incredible pain.
I am now totally free to be who I always was. A woman. In mind. In soul. And finally in body. Thank you God for showing me the way to true salvation. Amen.
P.S. Ladies, whoever and wherever you are, it’s never too late to be true to thyself. Carpe diem. Blessings to all. XOXOX
P.P.S. Lucille, a word of thanks from my heart for your support, help and insight in guiding us all to our place in the sun.