Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Ms. Lucille, Thanks so much for another lovely thread. I feel especially feminine wearing a pair of lace top thigh-high stockings with a pair of high heels. Or it might be a pair of full fashioned stockings with a sexy garter belt, tight (size 5) thing and, of course, my matching underwire, padded bra. Underwire, lacy teddies are very exhilarating on occasion also. Thanks again for this blog.
SissyCrissy……………………. xoxoxo!!!
Ms. Christina, You are so pretty in your pink “frillies” dear. I also have some frillies that I occasionally put on. But I mainly enjoy wearing my women’s lingerie. Thanks for sharing your photo Dear.
SissyCrissy……………….xoxoxo!!!
Recently my boyfriend bought me a garter belt and nylons! With that now, a lacy bra and panties, I seem to make him very happy and of course makes me feel extremely feminine!
I love to wear sexy lingerie. My favorite underpinnings are a sexy bra and panties complimented with a nice corset, stockings and of course, heels!
my favorite piece of lingerie I think is a very sexy red brait makes me feel so much like a woman when I wear It
For some reason I have become fixated on tanga style panties… I just love how they cup my butt! It’s like a cross between a thong and bikini panties and OMG it feels so sexy!
My fave is cute panties with lace and a bow or a flower on them.
Me to! I’ve been wearing panties since I was a preteen. I use to steal my sisters every day to my mothers dismay but, she wouldn’t buy me my own until I saved money, walked into Kmart and bought my own…and good lord my mom freaked out because they were lacy satin and sexier than my 18 year old sisters! By then she knew the battle was lost so, the next thing I knew, my mother bought me 10 pairs of cotton bikini panties that a respectable 12 year old girl/boy should be wearing…I loved my mother for that but, I had my eyes on Victoria Secret like all the other cool girls at school and I didn’t stop bugging her till she let me buy the pretty panties I wanted! Of course it was ordered from a magazine until I turned 16 and could go to the mall and buy what I really wanted! Got my first bra, a black satin miracle bra 34B. I wear a 38D now but, oh was I happy! And so was my bf! I love wearing hipsters, hipkini’s, bikini’s, and cheeky panties as my every day panties now! Especially the cheeky panties from Victoria Secrets! They are my favorite everyday panties. I love the feel of them on my smooth skin, weather lace, satin, or silk they make me feel extremely feminine and sexy all day, everyday! And of course, I have to wear a bra now everyday as well and I love to always make sure they match just in case my male friends feel frisky, I don’t want to get caught mismatched! lol
heels #1 with garder belts , with matching corset