Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I am looking into corset what advice do you have for this and yes I am new to crossdressing too
The thing that makes me feel the most feminine and sexy is my bra when I put it on I immediately feel like a woman thanks Lucille
I am a huge fan of womens lingerie. Its one of my favorite things, other than a pair of sexy heels. I own several pieces of sexy lingerie and I love wearing them. It makes me feel so feminine and girly, hehe. I am a big fan of babydoll nighties and short sexy gowns. Love your site Lucillie. Kisses to you girlfriend!! xoxo
I bought my first corset it makes me feel better about myself. I love your website and thank you for all you have done for me on my way to true happiness. You are one great friend and person
I’ve been very happy with having found Lucille. I finally encourage me to buy heels and change my name to a girl one, and I go for more!
I would like to share this top I’ve done in my favorite lingerie!
4- bra – I have not even much interested in my breasts yet, but I definitely love bras
3- babydoll – plan to buy one to go with the shape of my body, nothing more sexy and feminine!
2- stockings – I like all kinds I bought my first black pantyhos!
1- thong – thanks to the advice of Lucille I could buy a pair, feel great and make me look very sexy , I would like Lucille write more about thongs, I think buy many more!
Please tell me what you think of my top, I hope you like it
Kisses, Ninna
My favorite lingerie would be any of my maidenform demi bra’s and vanity fair illumination bikini panties, love the silky feel against my skin. Add a pair of 5 inch heels and I feel totally sexy, like the woman I was meant to be. I always keep my body totally hair free! Love getting pediicures and seeing my toes with a nice polish, my favorite color is purple.
In regards to fit, I have had bra fittings at both Victoria’s Secret and Macy’s. In both cases I was dressed in my normal womens clothes and the sales women treated me very nice and totally helpful. Highly recommend going for a fitting to anyone who has not had it done. Like you said the correct fit makes all the difference.
I really appreciate all your advice it has really helped me.
Love ya,
Kristin
I really love wear sexy babydolls!!
Kisses, Ninna
Ms. Lucille, Thanks so much for another lovely thread. I feel especially feminine wearing a pair of lace top thigh-high stockings with a pair of high heels. Or it might be a pair of full fashioned stockings with a sexy garter belt, tight (size 5) thong and, of course, my matching underwire, padded bra (36 A). Underwire, lacy teddies are very exhilarating on occasion also. Thanks again for this blog.
SissyCrissy……………………. xoxoxo!!!