Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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A pretty and sexy nightie, plus a negligeé
I think lingerie plays a big part in how you carry yourself..
I love everything on me:panties, bra, garders Stockings heels makeup hair perfume, yummy,
Sincerely,
AnaSofia
I love my bra and panties pants and love it in pink:)
nighties, see through with a nice bra and panties , black works for me.
Denise
I wear a 48A and it is tough to find something that doesn’t look industrial,any suggestions?
I love my bras. However, it is puzzling. Following the bra fitting guides I should be wearing a 38B. But, when I put on one of my wife’s bra – a 34C, it gave me cleavage, although it is tighter. Can anyone give me some advice about sizing? Thanks.
I hear your concern. From my experience, Bra sizes are pretty much guestimates by the bra companies. In other words, a 38B by one company will not be the same size as a 38B by a different company. I suspect that your wife’s 34C is actually a bit smaller than your 38B thus providing tightness and cleavage. I have about 25 bras in my wardrobe in several different tag-sizes yet they all fit about the same – go figure (no pun intended). Hope this helps. All the best, Sandra.
The manufacture has lots to do with bra’s, fiberorm is a favourite, la senza, c cups in 36 fit like some 38B’s.
Wearing My Bra 36C is by far My favorite thing to wear, followed by My heels, and (the taller the better) boots in the Winters here in Fargo, North Dakota!
Omg i live in bismarck north Dakota! Lol and I agree gotta have those cute boots for winter