Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I rarely get the chance to wear lingerie but am recently I did this photo shoot that was part of a performance and I love how it came out!
I love girdles so much. That was the first piece of woman’s underwear I tried on. I was a fat little kid about 8 years old. I accidentally walked in on my mom as she was dressing. I saw her and my mouth dropped open as I stared at her. She had an incredible body. Big boobs like softballs. She looked like Maureen O’Hara.
My favorite is this full body open bottom girdle
My favourite piece is this Merry Widow.
Paula
Hi lucille i like matching bra and knickers and hold ups xx hope the pics ok
Whoops didn’t mean to post that twice x
I love a bra knickers and hold ups xx
First of all, I absolutely love this website, lots of great content for us ladies that want to increase femininety, regardless of shape or birth sex 🙂
I’m a (lanky) cis woman but fall into the 14% with a reversed triangle shape. The clothing advice on here is spot on.
Secondly. I really like black lacy lingerie. I prefer balconette bras and Brazilian cut panties. Those two make the most of my small curves. Seriously, strings/thongs make my butt look sad, normal panties make it totally disappear alltogether, but with a brazilian cut, BAM, bootay! My favourite bras come from Marie Jo (or Marie Jo l’aventure). Their fit suits my breast shape well (small, wide apart). I really want a kimono and ruffled panties now.
Once I’m fully groomed and shaven all over I love to wear a nice bra, coordinating panties, and a corset with garters for stockings. I feel nothing is sexier than black for lingerie!
love ur look very sexy
Thank you for that lovely comment!
I feel like a sexy girl when I am wearing panties,nylons,heels,a bra with boobs and a tight short dress. It makes me quiver with delight. Christy