Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have cross dressed for over 4 decades this year,& my favourite lingerie item is & has always been my 36A padded bra, can’t imagine life without it.
“Larry”…I Love To See Men (Like Me) Wearing “Red Sexy Bras”…Wearing My Bra Is The Best Feeling Ever.
My bra’s an corsets including the one piece leotard are my sexist lingerie do wish could wear some sexy panties but everytime try fit into some their to loose or too tight and my tool seems to display more
As for me I like wearing thigh high suntan hose and a pair of 3 inch open toe heels.
Paired with a skirt and blouse it makes me feel so feminine and good.
I’m lucky to have a nice set of legs and when I shave them and moisturizer them they really are my best asset when I get dressed as Janine and go out in public
I’m a female (biologically) and identify as one but I just wanted to stop by one of these sites and tell the women that you are fierce and beautiful and I admire you babes for being so brave and embracing your femme, I love you mamas!
Thank you very much, support and compliments from biological females really mean alot to me. It is hard being a woman and as I have begun my journey I have alot more respect for all woman.
I love wearing nude high waist pantyhose they feel so luxurious and make feel feminine.
Dear I am married man and my thinking is female I want wear ladies wear all time but my wife not give me. what i done sometime I think susite is bettet . what I do
You can’t beat vintage lingerie it makes me feel more femmine and more sexy
And this new blue satin romper.