Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love all lingerie, but I feel especially sexy in white
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Hello Lucille!
Thank you so much for your wonderful advice. Personally, my favorite thing to wear that makes me feel over-the-top feminine is a sexy garter belt with silky thigh high stockings under a cute flared skirt. Even when the garters aren’t shown to the world, I know they are there which just makes me carry myself differently…MUCH more feminine. It’s soooo liberating!
mine are green an beigh bra’s nice dark or black pantyhose n stockings.high heels or wedged heels one my nice dresses
mine are green an beigh bra’s nice dark or black pantyhose n stockings.high heels or wedged heels one my nice dresses
I love sheer sexy panties or thong and sheer bra, also a black baby doll
Pretty pink panties to bring out the woman inside of me and anything to help shrink my clit and get ready for my man.
Anything showing a lot of skin 😉
I like a Natori, Wolford, anything from Jornelle. I have recently started wearing more simple bras from Nordstrom’s rack though. I like the sports bras that have a place for inserts. Free press makes some and they are cheap. I have some professional boudoir that I took and they made me look awesome. I don’t like the one shot they took standing from the back because I hate my butt but the rest of them are so beautiful. The lingerie looks awesome and I had really nice hair and makeup. I’m posting this screen shot of them because my little book is at home. I never bought the download of them instead I made a little book. So this is the only one I have.
Thanks Lucille