Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have only had them for about three months, but I have come to love my three Victoria’s Secret full coverage push up T-shirt bras. They cover up my breast forms completely and push up some nice cleavage of my natural breast. Because of them I have gotten more daring and wearing lower neck line tops.
Generally I wear a Teddy or a thong and Cami to bed. Just my preference.
Even though I’m 72 years old, I love babydoll lingerie when I go to bed at night. Makes me feel so feminine! Wearing heels with them is great too! Here I am the other night. What do you think?
Hi Suzy..
And I quit dressing because I turned 65! You look so so beautiful Honey!
Hugs always
Suzy
I think your one vary hot and vary sexy lady! Are you single ? I think I could learn a lot from you!
Thanks! Appreciate the complement!❤️
I feel so relaxed the min I slip into my basque and stockings and my Male things are in the wash basket
2nd comment. I do, as most on here, feel so much sexier when in my bra, panties, hose and heels. I come home as many and strip off the male part and bring out my fem part to enjoy the evening. Heels are a big part of that and I do wear panties everyday now. I usually put on a top and short shorts to be comfortable, but i mainly just wear heels, top and panties around the house. Thanks for your blogs and information.
Roberta Ann
2nd comment. I do, as most on here, feel so much sexier when in my bra, panties, hose and heels. I come home as many and strip off the male part and bring out my fem part to enjoy the evening. Heels are a big part of that and I do wear panties everyday now. I usually put on a top and short shorts to be comfortable, but i mainly just wear heels, top and panties around the house. Thanks for your blogs and information.
Roberta Ann
Panties have always made me feel the most feminine.
Ladies can you help me ? I want to know what size of baby doll and teddy I should get! I’m 6 feet tall and 145 pounds and I wear a 36 C bra and size 6 pantie!