Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have good news for me anyway I am going to start my transition into becoming a woman, I would like to thank you for all your advice.
I love panties
This is one of my favorites as well even though its a rear view
That is amazing
I like most any style lingerie but like to add garters and stockings when I can 🙂
Sexy sexy
My favorite a yellow lacy teddy i just love the way i look in it ! I’ve had great comments of how attractive i look in it an it makes feel absolutely female. It’s hard for me say that any one piece of lingerie is my favorite i actually have several if it makes feel even more feminine and sexyer
Then i all ready do it may become my favorite for a while. I love being an being treated a woman an it’s my true self i love when i’m able to catch the eye of a male that when i feel totaly 100% like a woman . I love it when i step from the bathroom to the bedroom an see the look an desire on his face . It’s the validation a woman loves an is looking for an there’s nothing that can make you feel more a woman then that .
Lucille,
Great tips, I believe in getting a professional bra fitting. Vanity Fair Beauty Back bras from Macy’s are my favorites along with Vanity Fair Illumination bikini panties. They really flatter my feminine figure, my favorite color is purple. My body is completely hair free from the neck down. I have been using the http://www.noogleberry.com breast pump you recommend on a regular basis. Also been using http://www.naturaful.com breast cream and patches. My breasts have developed to a nice C-cup, LOVE them. I’m currently wearing just a bra and panties as I write this and feeling so SEXY! Thank you so much for all the great advice and tips you provide in your blogs.
Kristin
Feeling so pretty tonite
I love this lacy set.
Just fits so well and feels devine
Ohhh very nice set for sure.