Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My favorite thing to wear is a red bra and panties lace set. It not only keep me snug, but it help keep my erection from showing.
Favourite: day time, nylon full slips
night time, long sheer nylon nighties
Dear lucille i wish you would give me a sample of your breast enlargement product so i also could have feminine breasts
“John”…I just started “InstantBust” All-Natural Capsules (About $69.00 per mo.)…I LOVE WEARING MY MATCHING BRAS and PANTIES.
I love wearing bras and nylon panties with maxi pads and get it on at night in bed.My one dream is to have feminine breasts but dont have money for your products.
I do have a few favorites. A baby doll nightie is one of my favorite pieces, but there is nothing like a colorful lacy bra with a sheer pair of panties on.
Fantastic!!
You are most welcome
Thank you so much Billie
Gorgeous picture!!!
Thank you Jimi.
I love silk lace, or satin panties and bras, also paired with garter belt and nylons. The feel as you move even ever so slightly makes me truly feel like the femme lady I should have been. If I were a little younger I would transition to the lady I wish to be.
Pretty bras are my absolute favorite lingerie. I wear Vanity Fair undies every day as they are so soft and femme. However, wearing bras does it for me as it lets me show off my breasts to anyone who cares. Wow, love the way I look in all of my favorite blouses, skin-tight shirts, sweaters, etc.
Here I am today at Macy’s. The sales lady was helping me try out some new baby dolls. I just love black lacy ones. I bought the one I’m wearing. What do you think? I’m a happy girl!