Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Love this site. I’ve been TV/TS/TG since age 5. I live mostly as a male on the outside, but always wear women’s under garments. I own zero male underthings. At first going to see my doctor (a woman) or in a gym changing room I felt embarrassed, frankly I don’t care what others think. My painted toes do get stares on occasion.
Favourites: Daytime, nylon full slip. In bed, full length nylon nightdress
“Harry”…Wearing Any Of My 100 Plus “Sexy Bras” Is Great For Me.
There are a lot of “Pretty Girls” here.
I just love my bra sets thay just make me feel sexy.
by far my favorite lingerie is my panties!
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i am sorry i speak ony in french i am french of Paris i am crossdresser
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“Jacques”…”WOW”…What A Lingerie Collection…I Am A 66 Year Old “Crossdresser”…Sexy Bras Are My Favorite Item To Wear.
i love wearing pantyhose and a full slip when i sleep when i can. i hope to start hormone treatments soon. I dont wear male socks for almost 3 years now. Its either nylons or barefoot
“Julie”…We are about the same size…You will make a nice looking girl with Hormone Treatments…Even though I have “Big Natural Breasts” (46B/46C-Cup)…I have started to take “InstantBust” All-Natural Capsules…”Wish Me Luck In Growing Bigger Breasts”…I LOVE TO WEAR MY BRAS and MATCHING PANTIES.
Paula,
i hope that your breasts grow in full, firm and feminine. Make us all proud
julie