Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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For me it is definately my favourite bra. It’s black, lacy and makes me feel so fem.
Well for me a sexy bra
Jessica
Love that Bra, very sexy!
Awesome you look great!!!!
How did you get your breast to that size? I’ve tried push up bras and waist trainers that push the breasts up. I want to have big breasts like you!
36 D all on hormones, massage, and pumping them.
My favorite piece of lingerie is a garterbelt with nude seamed stockings i feel so feminine in it.
It’s not just one piece, but it’s when I get into my stockings (color matching for the clothes of the day) and one of my favorite bra’s and then the silkiest slip I own and I feel so feminine I melt away inside.
Jessica,
I agree with you. A favorite bra, matching panties, stockings and a silk slip brings out the woman in me. There is nothing that compares to the feeling.
Love, Irene
Silky camisole and French Knickers. I don’t know what it is , but I always feel feminine in this combination.
My favorite piece of lingerie is the panty the panty is made and designed exclusively for a woman’s vagina. So it’s the symbol of a females core her center of pure femininity.
When I put together any outfit or if I’m shopping for a outfit the one thing I always do is buy matching panties 3 or 4 different pair for each ensemble because a simple panty change can bring a old outfit back to life. I can’t count the times that I did a simple panty change on a outfit that I’ve worn alot and my daddy’s have said, wow love the new outfit!
I also honor and respect the panty I showed that I was worthy of my panty by sucking cock and I displayed responsibility for this privilege by swallowing semen giving my clitty penis (she-nis) the empowerment to have females approve of her presence in her panty with pride and acceptance.
The panty emasculated my failure as a male as the panty gave me the courage to adm admit that I’m a bitch, a proud bitch…
My front closure VS Bombshell push-up bra makes me feel so girly. It’s hugs me in all the right places and gives me a bit of cleavage.
I don’t believe there is any ONE piece of lingerie by itself will make me feel feminine, I do fancy full fashion stockings when my legs are shaved smooth, but they are the START of that feeling that tells me “I’m on my way!”
The biggest thing to feeling feminine is the mind. The moment you apply your mind, you can be senuously feminine and then get stronger with each piece of lingerie you put on.
I am not able to dress as often as I’d like, but when I do, (I feel like I’m quoting that “Most Interesting Guy”…lol) I transform my thoughts to feel feminine and display that in my bodily movements. Of course, it helps to be student of watching feminine ladies moving about. THAT, is the foundation of femininity.