Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love my red corset with black lace trim. When I was about 11 my mom dressed me up as a girl for Halloween. Not sure whose idea it was, but I liked it. It’s many decades later now, and I have a great collection of sexy bras and panties and thigh-highs. I’m pretty comfortable shopping in the women’s section now. I’d give anything to have been born a girl, but at least I can enjoy dressing pretty and feeling pretty,
Veronica here. Lingerie. When I was young, while my mother was at work I would try some of her clothes. I came across a solid white satin slip. Well, I tried it on and when my mother came home from word I asked her why I wasn’t born a girl. Of course she asked my why and I told her that while putting her and my sisters clothes away I came across a white slip and it felt so good that for some reason I had to try it on. I stopped talking and she said, “Well, did it fit”. I looked at her for a few seconds and then we both started laughing.
I won’t go into the rest of it, but one of the first things I bought in womens clothing was a long beautiful white skirt. Isn’t life beautiful…..
Ich bin eine trans frau. Ich trage Slip und strumpfhosen und eine knall enge miederhose. Ich bin schon etwas älter.aber ich bin gerne eine frau
Not an LGBTQ+ but am a cross dresser
For me, the lacy nylon full slip is my favorite. I love the feeling of the silky material against my skin and the touch of lace at the hem and bodice. I often wear it to bed with a pair of silky panties and pantyhose as well as adding another lacy half slip to my bed wear. The four layers of silky material just feel so, so good.
I agree, I love the layers. Though not natural I wear heels as well
Corsets are definitely my favorite
First rule is be smooth always! Second get a bit of skin colour; fake tan or sun bed! Thereafter it’s silk, satin, sheer and lace all the way. I always wear panties and my preference is high waisted as I have a flat tummy and they accentuate my butt. At night I’ll slip into a silky slip for bed. Agree also with the robe tip, my BF goes wild when he sees me in a silk robe (I have lots) and panties. As for colour, I prefer my lingerie colourful, but have plenty of black for the nighttime!
I’ve been using the sublime bust lotion for over a year, breast pump and a different number of massage and exercise. Might be I’m 67 years old . Must say very little breast growth. Yet my mother had small breasts. Might be hereditary they just might not grow. The lotion is awesome and makes what little breasts I have feel soft and sensual. Wish I’d started a lot sooner.