Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I LOVE this cami and panty coordinate! I love the fit and my friends like the look!
I love my gaff’s. It is called a T-string, https://www.facebook.com/TStringsForTheGirlsWithTheSecret. I have a Facebook friend who makes them. this keeps my member in place and and gives me a absolute smooth front. When wearing form fitting clothing i have the appearance of being all woman. I also learned that wearing the correct size bra is more sexy than wearing a sexy looking bra that doesn’t fit. I have two different size bras. One when i am wearing my forms and another when I am not. The cup sizer is very important to achieve a good look. And yes i have about 20 pair so they all match. 😉
Panties and camisoles are always a part of my daily wardrobe. I especially love the Vanity Fair Illumination line because they are sexy but not over sissyfied. And the best part is that you can wear them under your “street” clothes with no one being the wiser.
I love my Bustier and matching ruffled skirt the best. My wife can’t wait to get home and remove her bra and heels. I, on the other hand, can’t wait to get home to put my bra and heels on. Your advise and recommendations have been wonderful. Thank you.
thank you lucille .
ive always loved bras. And then I got breastforms and now I KNOW what bras are for. Since then, Ive developed a relationship with my bras. Each one now has a personality that I choose to compliment my own. My pink one is my favorite. O dont need anything else to feel really feminine. My black one is sexy. The sheer one is slutty. The beighe one is just plain Jane for when I just want to be a girl but not get laid. A good (and good fitting) bra whill not only hold those wonderful girls in place; it will distribute the weight all over the bra. So every inch of my upper torso feels the benefits of having tits (40C).
Yes, thanks for this beautiful article. My favorite lingerie piece is ruffled panties, they allow look like so gorgeous and feminine, showing big hips at the same time. My legs are covered with delicate ultra transparent nylon stockings, decorated with drawings sober. whole set looks very balanced. Working with my body daily, taking care to reduce the width of my back and my shoulders. I take care to use the right size bra, so I will not appear false, that error will commit not ever. Thanks again Vanessa.
Best regards.
Thank you for the great information. I love to wear my sexy nighty’s when I am doing my housework. I even step outside once in a while and the neighbor love’s to whistle at me if he is around. I love to feel sexy and show off all that I can. I love to dress up and go shopping at the Mall as often as I can.