Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Dear Lucille, please forgive my previous post. i called you the wrong name. i just discovered all these web sites and got confused, i forgot which site i was on. i found a lot of useful info on your site and will visit often. rae
Hi Jamie, please help me. i’m 62 yrs old and just stopped suppressing my desires. what size heels should i buy? i am men’s size 43 european and 9 1/2 US. what does that convert to in lady’s shoe size. thanks, rae
That converts to a 11 1/2 to 12 in a woman’s size American. In European that would convert to a size 45 to a 46. The key is to go 2 size up in a woman shoe.
Hope this helps
Joan
I enjoy A variety of clothes for lounging, Satin, Silk and the like are my favorites although with the right company visiting Leather and lace might fit the need. Hugs Joann
Joanne your beautiful! I am from Buffalo,NY would like to talk sometime! Best!
I love wearing a good fitting bra and panties. garter an stockings are great. A baby doll is wonderful. I have a set of large breastforms that I sometimes use, so I can wear set I really love from Australia.
I was just in my pool and wore a slenderizing one-piece black bathing suit. My breast forms fit perfect in the cups. And with the small amount of hormones I’ve been taking, my rear and hips fill it out even better. It looks perfect with the small cleavage I’m showing. A GG friend, who knows and helps me, is coming over later to put sone sun tan lotion on me as I stretch out on a comfortable lounge share…I’ll also put lotion on her, she’ll be wearing a two piece and will lay face down with her top off. Oh, I reallyy wish we were all girls. Anyone agree?
Also a great bathing suit can be real sexy. My true goal is to one day fit into a bikini.
I love all unmentionables made of silk or nylon. My favorite item I wear out of necessity is an uplift bra to keep my breasts from sagging. I just ordered a collection of genie bra’s and undies to match colors to wear every day under my male clothing. Honestly, though, I love everything females wear. I also love wearing the sexiest of earrings (ears pierced) but not outside the house. I keep looking on line for the old fashioned earrings that are huge and make me look like a slut. Anybody know where they sell them?
I have myself a good collection of favorites. The feel of my select pieces are amazing! To say the least, I have some pieces that fit each mood!
I especially love my ruffly, rumba panties and a well=fitted bra from Victoria’ Secret… everything else I wear is “Ultra=Girly” becaue I got rid of ALL my men’s clothes. Yaaaaay Chrissi!!!
There’s nothing like a sexy bra.