Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I’m finding that it does cost more to dress in female clothing.So this journey must be slow for some gals.
Lucille, I love your bit loosening up(I do agree with you)
but what happens when you’re past 55.
L.O.L at 64, I think I’m stiffer than a steel bed base.
Laurie, I feel you totally, sweetie. I’m in my mid-60s so I get it. I try to dress up in some very feminine and sexy clothes that make me feel so girly (and hot!) It really helps me loosen up because the more feminine I feel, the more people seem to notice. And that always warms me up
I like everything you are sending me. I have been taking femalehormons, my breasts are a big 38d cup
Great tips Lucille thank you! : )
I feel the most feminine when I wear a white bra, a yellow skirt and taupe or off-black pantyhose.
#2. Fuller answers. Men reply as if instructing or ordering, a woman enquires, i.e. in a restaurant, he will say “I’ll have the steak”, she will say “may I have the steak please”. Get used to asking in a feminine manner, even if in drab male mode. I find it produces better interaction.
Let’s talk some time.
Live as a girl and become skillful with girly things! Talk about girly things instead of sports, cars, beer, and women, get girly interests, read girly magazines, watch romantic dramas instead of violent action, and so on! I have teached genetic girls how to take care of and paint their nails for example and such things makes me feel both more girly and more accepted for what I am.
Thank you, Lucille, as always, your tips are much appreciated.
For me, practicing yoga helps “loosen” my body up considerably, allowing for more fluid, yet delicate movement. It also helps keep me more attuned to my surroundings, making it easier to interact with gentle civility.
xoxo
Veronica