Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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How do I look?
One thing about being a girl is we are all different,
you rarely see two girls dressed the same, guys dress
quite similar, as a woman you can be more of who you
really want to be, where guys feel more inclined to wear
same stuff, its a great feeling to finally dress as yourself,
and be who you really want to be. Be yourself and you
will feel so much more confident, too. But mostly have fun.
I am 58 now and wished I were in my twenties now that transitioning is more exceptable for transgender people like me. Ever since I can remember as a child I wanted and felt like a girl and hid it through the fascade of masulinity!
The before and after photos of mtf transition are so amazing!! My doctor said people in their twenties do this, prefering to say that I am too old to become my authentic self. Bruce Jenner became Kaitlynn, why cannot I become Shay Linn.
Hi Shay
Its harder when your older for sure.
I understand the hiding in the facade of masculinity.
Toni
A pic turns out much better then I think I could, was trying to have as many post as I can, I shave all my body hair even tho you can barely see.
You definitely have the legs for that skirt! Oo la la!
Being confident is so important. Always having a smile to greet people is also very important. I’m 72 and now live my life pretty much 24/7 as a female. Never have a problem. Here I am yesterday at Macy’s trying on some dresses for a wedding I will be attending.
Hi Suzy
No way your 72….i can only hope that im looking as good as you at that age… your giving me hope 🙂
Toni
Suzy, You look great ! I am glad to see mature women that dress.
I am 72 also an I have been dressinf gor many years also haven’t been out many times but have begun to do so and yes I agree with you as a smile will take you anywhere.
Stacey
SUZY U LOOK STUNNING
I ifeel more female by : smiling a lot , hugging when meet somebody i know, being easy going and not dramatic, feeling that i am satisfied with my self
i find a gentle head tilt and demure smile , even if practising it alone , can make me feel more feminine. And without going OTT with it – a natural “blink” of eyelashes rather than an exaggerated flutter can have the desired affect. X
i love feeling soft and smooth,,i shave my body of any hair,,,except my head and eyebrows,,,shower useing a good scented body wash and i bath 3 time a week useing some scented body oils,i add a few drops of baby oil as well,,,,it leave my body so soft ,smooth and femmine,,,,it makes dressing wonderful,,,and my nylons feel so
awesome covering my smooth legs ,,
Sabrina , that sounds lovely.
Do you use bubble bath too ?
My favourite has a lovely lavender scent .