Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi, well, when I dress up enfemme, I like going out for walks, sometimes it very late at night (yes I know its dangerous) or sometimes at the crack of dawn. But mostly I get in my car on sunday mornings during warm weather, and go out driving around in my car. I will find some spots to step out and be seen by others, or sometimes I will go to a park, but thats kinda risky with cops driving through too. Halloween is a perfect time for me to be enfemme cuz most everyone doesn’t even give it a second thought on that day, but I’d really love to get the courage up to go shopping, go to a club, and a TG support group meeting…..all of those would be fun. My problem is having to do these things by myself, it would be alot easier if i had some other sisters to do these things with, and help put me at ease.
I’m in SoCal, I’ll go walking with you if you’re nearby.
If I do go out as Elvira it would be the annual gay pride parade or on halloween otherwise I will get in my car late at night and drive around.
Jeff aka Jenny, if you are not taking hormone replacement therapy then there is not a lot you can do except wearing Breast forms. If you are taking hormones then give it time. I started to develope after 2 months but it can take up to 7 years for them to reach their max. size.
Besides developing Breasts other physical changes are losing all your male body hair except for your face and neck, your hips will get a little bigger as well as your tush becoming fuller and rounder. Your skin will become softer, your hair finer and if you have male pattern baldness that will slowly fill in. As wonderful as the physical changes are the most wonderful are the mental changes so will over a period of time stop thing male. Many of these changes are so sutble that you don’t even notice them, things like how you get in and out of you car, how your walk will change from male to female, many things that you liked/enjoyed as a male will no longer be important.
I hope this helps you out.
Lexie
Well, under the other catagory I would like to add the following: resaurants, church, doctors (non-gender related), commercial air travel, museums. Basically I go anywhere I want except work.
Wonderful!
Hello,
I have been cd for the past 18 years, However, I just starting going out working as a secrete shopper over the last 3 years. Like many others The look was not that difficult but learning to speak in a Feminine voice has taken a lot of practice.
Hugs
Joann
I’m 55 years old and have been crossdressing for as long as I can remember. The time is coming soon when I will start to live my life as the woman I have always been but was forced to suppress. I only hope that it’s not too late for me.
The Freedom to be Feminine is a right I have enjoyed for almost a decade now,and I pray daily for courage for all who seek to claim it for themselves to whatever degree they may chose.Thank you so much for this wonderful opportunity to encourage and comment and share! Best Wishes Honey
That’s a wonderful way to put it. Thank you for sharing!
I just wanted to say I love your videos and you must be doing well for yourself to be moving into a place in the City!! I envy you for i live in Stockton Ca which is 80 mi. east and we are soon to move from here it is so cold but i love the City and you are fortunate indeed !! (if you need help let me know) lol someday! right now I am a caregiver to my mom who is 86 and loves the idea that I am transitioning so now she has a daughter to look after her and I mentiioned your name and she says Hi Lucille!!! take care—Jennifer Abbott (Jenn)
That’s so sweet! Thanks for sharing the story about your mom. 🙂