What’s the secret to being a super hot woman?
In my opinion, it’s all about mastering your MOVEMENTS!
Maybe you’ve seen it for yourself: the plain Jane woman whose sexy walk turns heads vs. the beautiful girl whose dude-like swagger kills her looks.
How feminine are YOUR movements? Do you project femininity when you walk or have you gone overboard into drag queen territory?
Here are 3 feminine movement mistakes every crossdresser and transgender woman needs to avoid:
1. Over exaggerating your hip movements
Everybody knows that women sway their hips when they walk, but the biggest tipoff of an amateur is overexaggerated hip movements.
Don’t swing your hips around – instead, put on a pair of high heels. Heels cause your hips to sway without you having to force the movement. The key is to relax your body and go with the flow.
2. Being too stiff
Genetic males naturally have tenser bodies than women do. If your body is tense, your movements are going to look stiff and masculine.
The secret to fluid, feminine movements is to relax your body. Be careful not to tense your shoulders or lower back when you are “en femme”. It’s also super helpful to stretch and get massages to release built up tension.
3. Arching your back
Arching your back and sticking your chest out might look sexy, but real women don’t walk around like that.
Instead, keep your back straight and pull your shoulders down and back. This makes you look confident and feminine, without looking ridiculous.
Now that you know what not to do, here’s a video demonstrating the RIGHT way to walk. Notice the straight posture, gently swinging hips, and relaxed movements:
How feminine are YOUR movements? Do you struggle with this or are you one of the lucky girls who are naturally graceful? Leave me your comments below!
P.S. Want more advanced feminine movement training? My Stepping Out Secrets Program will show you how to REPROGRAM your movements so you can walk like a naturally graceful woman. Go here for all the details!
Whether you are an occasional crossdresser or live as a woman full time, lingerie is a great way to connect with your femme self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties?
But let’s face it …
It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
Here’s how to look HOT in feminine lingerie (even if you have a beer belly and manly hips):
1. Get the right fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top”. It’s impossible to look good in lingerie that doesn’t fit right.
Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms. Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size.
2. Flatter your shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws (like a big belly) and highlight your assets (like sexy long legs).
Here are the most flattering pieces for crossdressers and transgender women:
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had bigger hips? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement your skin tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood) so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone. White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they make pale skin look even more pasty. Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be impeccable with your grooming
Let’s face it – there’s nothing sexy about hair peeking out of your bra or panties!
If you are going to wear beautiful lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par. Shave or wax regularly and apply lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
So what do you think, girlfriend? Lingerie is one of my favorite things in the world and I’d love to hear YOUR thoughts. Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please tell me about it in the comments section below!