When Did You First Know You Were a Girl? (For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women)


There’s a common theme I’ve noticed with most of “my girls”… It’s that they’ve known who they are from a very early age. What about you? When did YOU first know you were a girl – or had a feminine side? Have you known since you were young or did the realization blossom later in… Continue Reading

Top 5 Pantyhose Rules (Male to Female Transformation Tips)


What could be more feminine than a pair of silky smooth pantyhose? I get a ton of questions about this topic, so let’s talk PANTYHOSE. As you’ve probably noticed, not many women wear pantyhose these days. But that doesn’t mean YOU can’t wear them. The secret is to choose hose that make you look sexy… Continue Reading

The Top 5 Male to Female Makeup Mistakes


Makeup can have an amazing impact on your appearance – IF you apply it correctly. Unfortunately, makeup is the single skill “my girls” tell me they struggle with most. I know you want to be your most beautiful femme self – and the first step to achieving this is to avoid these common male to female makeup… Continue Reading

How to Look Hot in Feminine Lingerie (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)


Whether you’re an occasional crossdresser or live as a woman full time, lingerie is a great way to connect with your femme self. How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked! Here’s how to… Continue Reading

How Do You “Label” Yourself? (Gender Identity Q&A)


When I tell people about my work with the TG/CD community, I occasionally get responses like: “Oh, you mean drag queens?” Or… “You work with transvestites?” There’s a lot of ignorance out there and I get annoyed when people mislabel “my girls”. The fact that there are so many identities under the transgender umbrella only… Continue Reading

Where to Find Women’s Shoes in Your Size (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)


Note from Lucille: This is a guest post from Alex of Isy B. Shoes. Enjoy – and if you know any other resources for large size women’s shoes, be sure to share them with us below! A beautiful pair of shoes can give you a boost of confidence — and show the world just who… Continue Reading

Lingerie Poll: For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women


Do you love wearing lingerie? I’m guessing the answer is YES! There’s nothing as feminine as beautiful lingerie, so please take my LINGERIE POLL and share your thoughts below! What’s your favorite piece of lingerie to wear? How many bras do you own? How many panties do you  own? What’s your favorite panty style?

How to Look Hot in Your Femme Photos (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)


Photos are a great way to share your femme self with the world. But maybe you think you have to look like a model to take stunning photos? Guess again! Taking beautiful photos is all about SKILL. Here are my top 5 secrets for looking HOT in your femme photos: 1. Angle your body When… Continue Reading

7 Simple Ways to Look Younger Now (Male to Female Transformation Tips)


Many crossdressers and TG women tell me that it was easier for them to look feminine when they were younger. None of us can stop the clock, but that doesn’t mean you have to accept looking old! With a little effort (and some beauty tricks), you can look feminine and beautiful at any age. Here… Continue Reading

5 Ways to Look Thinner Instantly (Male to Female Transformation Tips)


Do you wish you had a thinner, more feminine figure right now? I’m guessing the answer is YES! The good news is that there are some easy tricks for looking 5 or 10 pounds thinner – instantly! (No diets or grueling workouts required.) Here are 5 ways to slenderize your body now: 1. Wear clothes that… Continue Reading