3 Unexpected Ways to Be More Feminine (Male to Female Transformation Tips)

male to female ways to be more feminine

Putting on a dress and lipstick aren’t the only ways to express your femininity. (We women are more complex than that!)

That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and share some “unexpected” ways to be more feminine.

Ready to boost your womanly allure? Try these 3 tips:

1. Buy a new perfume


The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine.

While it’s great to have a “signature scent”, it’s also good to switch things up sometimes.

Since scent is strongly linked to memories, your current perfume may no longer represent who you are.

If that’s the case, it’s time to go shopping! Look for a perfume that matches the feminine qualities you want to express NOW:

  • Try a floral scent if you want to convey your soft, romantic side.
  • Try a woody or oriental scent if you want to bring out your inner seductress.

Check out this article for more on the feminizing power of perfume.

2. Be more polite


Countless studies have shown that women are more polite than men. It doesn’t matter how good you look… a lack of social grace is NOT pretty.

Here are 3 things to keep in mind.

  • Always remember to say “please” and “thank you”. These little words go a long way!
  • Use softeners in your language. For example, instead of saying “I can’t hear you” say “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.”
  • Consider how you come across online. Remember, it’s as important to be polite in emails and online as it is in person.

3. Loosen up


Want to instantly improve your feminine image? A simple secret is to loosen up. This applies to your body AND your mind.

First, loosen up your body.

Women are naturally more limber than men. If you have a tense and tight body, it’s going to translate into stiff, jerky movements – the opposite of feminine and graceful.

To loosen up:

  • Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
  • Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
  • Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.

This will do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!

Next, loosen up your mind.

The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody.

Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.

Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!

What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?

As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic…

What are your favorite – and maybe unexpected – ways to feel feminine?

Please share in the comments below!


feminizationhypnosis-freeaudioP.S. Tuning into your “feminine mind” is another way to boost your womanly allure. Hypnosis can help you do this! Curious to give it a try? Click here to download my FREE Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini session.

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  1. In my case I like sometimes to start day from putting some tongs tight, then I’m putting well fitted pantyhose and I’m pulling it very precisely to make them full contact with all my body details below -especially in panty area, I have it even between my but cheeks holding and supporting every thing slim and tight. After that I quickly put another tongs also tighting them to make everything perfectly fitted. Next is some not so big bra – in fact smaller is better only in this case – and sometimes when I’m really horny, I put some nylon-like dress with more designed holes than actual material. After that only wig is left to put on and then – dressed like this something like basics – I put full bath of hot water and I jump in to have a female bath time. These are always my longest visits in a bathroom. There’s always music playing and I’m reading some girls magazine’s and just relaxing with woman’s touch all the time. When I get out I always stay in hole panties installation and I’m making them dry as possible with a towel and later with hairdryer and I love it because when everything is getting dry it also “stick” better to body and gets a little bit tighter etc. Then I dress the rest however my mind leads me to do it :-)

  2. Hi Lucille goodness it’s hot here today 100 degree’s feels like 110 its hard to breath I’ll be glad when the sunsets but it still will not help that much last night at 10:00 Pm it still felt like 103 I hope we get a cool front soon I’m actually waiting for fall this year I usually don’t mind the heat but this year wow what a scorcher I’m a little discouraged today just thinking about my forearms I have more scars than I’d like I guess I could remove the hair and use some spray on makeup or something like I might use on my legs I’ve been a mechanic and an installer of AC units on school buses which burnt and scarred my arms maybe I’m being too self conscience about it I wish I had decided to transition earlier in life at times I feel so damaged sometimes I think about getting tat’s to cover my scars but I don’t really like that idea either Love M.J.

  3. Hi Lucille I’m a little discouraged today sometimes I wonder if my check is ever going to show up I get down at times I’m not sure whether its still my grieving over my wife, moving all my stuff into storage, and waiting to start transitioning or all three maybe not being able to get in here doesn’t help either I sure hope my check shows up soon I’m really getting anxious I really need a change of pace bad even a movie would help something really different Love M.J.

  4. I feel the most feminine when I’m the prettiest too as when I get rid of uggy body & facial hair get moisturized let a little time pass do my makeup and get dressed in something sexy of course I start with matching bra and panties and then maybe a waist cincher and padded girdle then depending on what I’m wearing if it’s jeans I pull them up zip or button them okay then I find a nice top to complete the look then I find my jewelry and then when I’m all done a complete woman that’s when I feel my most feminine my hair is just right makeup looks good and if I turned out good enough I may even take off somewhere anywhere but home is always nice its nice to dress at home but I’m ready for the world to get to know the new me and the more I think about it the less I care whether I pass or not just so I can be myself because I know inside I’m all woman Love M.J.

  5. Oh this sounds fun my favorite ways to feel feminine hmmm One is taking a shower and getting rid of my uggy old body hair and facial hair the best I can I do have a little trouble here I think wish I could get rid of it for good but moving on some times I take a bubble bath to do this except for shaving my face after that I need to do as Lucille says and use aloe vera to moisturize I need this very much I’ve been letting myself go too too long I need help in this area as to the best way of making myself feminine more and more I need help but I’m sure I’ll get it here and I need to relax and enjoy the journey which I intend to do I love being feminine I feel so much more relaxed and at ease with the world

  6. I know a lot of women hate doing it(myself included) but I feel the sexiest right after shaving my legs. The soft smooth feel makes me feel wonderful!

  7. I feel the most feminine when I feel the prettiest. That’s usually when I wear something soft that caresses and soothes my body with gentle designs or patterns.
    With a quick hug and a peg on your cheeks,

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