Clothes are a big part of expressing yourself as a woman, but it’s something a lot of people struggle with.
Do you ever wonder how to put together stylish, feminine outfits?
While I’m a firm believer that there are no rules in fashion, it helps to have some general guidelines… especially if you’re new to putting together transgender or crossdressing outfits.
In this post, I’ve outlined a simple 5-step formula for putting together the perfect outfit.
1. Start With a Basic Piece
The foundation for your outfit should be a basic piece in a neutral color. Examples of basic pieces include: a classic a-line skirt, solid black pants, or a jacket in a neutral color.
2. Add an Interest Piece
The next step is to add an interest piece that will make your outfit POP. This should be something with color, pattern, texture, or shine.
Yes, you can pair basic pieces and neutral colors together, but that’s boring! You’ll look so much younger, prettier, and more feminine if you incorporate something fun or colorful into your outfit.
Examples of interest pieces include: a lace top, a brightly colored dress, or a floral skirt.
3. Choose Your Shoes
Shoes make or break your outfit, so choose wisely. A pair of hot heels can make a basic outfit nightclub-worthy, while the wrong shoes can make you look frumpy and outdated no matter how cute the rest of your outfit is.
Here are 2 rules for choosing shoes:
- Consider the occasion. Formal events call for heels and shiny, sparkly styles. Casual events call for flats and casual styles.
- Consider the color. Neutral colors like brown or black always work, but don’t be afraid to play with color. A pair of beautiful shoes in an unexpected color can raise you to the fashionista level.
One tip: If you’re wearing a bright color, don’t match your shoes exactly to your outfit. It tends to look clownish. Instead, try a related accent color for an edgier look.
4. Add Accessories
The next step is to add accessories, including jewelry, scarves, belts, hosiery, sunglasses, etc. Have some fun with this!
TIP: Be sure to choose accessories that are in scale with your overall proportions. If you have a larger frame, go for bigger earrings, necklaces, sunglasses, etc. that aren’t overpowered by your larger features.
5. Finish With a Handbag
The final step is to finish your outfit with a handbag. There are 2 things to consider:
- Consider the occasion. If it’s a formal event, go for a clutch or a structured handbag. If it’s a casual event, go for a slouchy bag in a casual fabric like leather, suede, or canvas. (The more structured the handbag, the dressier it looks.)
- Consider the color. Neutral colors will give you the most mileage, but brightly colored handbags can look unique and fashionable. If you decide to go for color, don’t worry about matching your bag to your shoes – that old rule doesn’t apply anymore.
Let’s see YOUR outfit!
And there you have it… A perfect outfit in 5 easy steps!
Now I’d love to see YOUR best outfit looks, so share a photo in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have very large feet and I am having trouble finding shoes in stores that will fit me. What store will most likely carry the larger sizes of shoes. Also, what type of style of shoe should I buy that would keep my feet from looking so large.
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I find the higher the heels the better, the tilt of the foot in the higher heels foreshortens the lateral length and makes your feet look shorter. Those beuties in my phot are size nines (UK) and genuinly SIX INCHES high. I simply live to go clubbing and strutting my stuff.
Bev.
Well as far as outfits go, I’m GROWING OLD DISGRACEFULLY!!!
When I go ‘clubbing’ which is mostly what I do, I wear the most outrageous outfits and I also wear them for shopping as well!!!
Like most or a lot of us..my legs are by far
my best feature..probably cause I spend a lot
of time at the gym keeping them nice and firm
And gurls, no pantyhose with open toe shoes! Amateur mistake.
And as USUAL, nothing concrete in this page… only confusing advices like number
5:
“”Neutral colors will give you the most mileage, but brightly color handbags are very “in” right now. “”
so?.. whats the advice? neutral or bright!!!
smh…
Hi Andrea,
My advice is to decide whether you want a bag that goes with everything or if you want to make a fashion statement – and choose accordingly. 🙂
It’s not my style to tell you that you “must” wear this or that. I believe fashion is about personal choice (within certain guidelines, like the ones above).
Love,
Lucille
Great advice thanks …but I think step 6 should be event appropriate makeup. I know for me sometimes it’s difficult to not over do my face (eyes especially)
Wonderful your page, blog, tips, everything may god bless for all that yo do fo”US”.
is possible to have a phone conversation with you in order to have a more personal assistance in how to tell my family that i am different?
Truly yours
Julieta from Mexico
thank you! great tips! will be wearing a scarf tonight when I go out! Thank you bunches!
Joanie
I love scarfs but I feel like they make my face look wrong even though I love wearing them My iPad won’t let me post a pic here. Sorry
My pleasure, Joanie! It’s great to have you here. 🙂
Love,
Lucille