Clothes are a big part of expressing yourself as a woman, but it’s something a lot of people struggle with.
Do you ever wonder how to put together stylish, feminine outfits?
While I’m a firm believer that there are no rules in fashion, it helps to have some general guidelines… especially if you’re new to putting together transgender or crossdressing outfits.
In this post, I’ve outlined a simple 5-step formula for putting together the perfect outfit.
1. Start With a Basic Piece
The foundation for your outfit should be a basic piece in a neutral color. Examples of basic pieces include: a classic a-line skirt, solid black pants, or a jacket in a neutral color.
2. Add an Interest Piece
The next step is to add an interest piece that will make your outfit POP. This should be something with color, pattern, texture, or shine.
Yes, you can pair basic pieces and neutral colors together, but that’s boring! You’ll look so much younger, prettier, and more feminine if you incorporate something fun or colorful into your outfit.
Examples of interest pieces include: a lace top, a brightly colored dress, or a floral skirt.
3. Choose Your Shoes
Shoes make or break your outfit, so choose wisely. A pair of hot heels can make a basic outfit nightclub-worthy, while the wrong shoes can make you look frumpy and outdated no matter how cute the rest of your outfit is.
Here are 2 rules for choosing shoes:
- Consider the occasion. Formal events call for heels and shiny, sparkly styles. Casual events call for flats and casual styles.
- Consider the color. Neutral colors like brown or black always work, but don’t be afraid to play with color. A pair of beautiful shoes in an unexpected color can raise you to the fashionista level.
One tip: If you’re wearing a bright color, don’t match your shoes exactly to your outfit. It tends to look clownish. Instead, try a related accent color for an edgier look.
4. Add Accessories
The next step is to add accessories, including jewelry, scarves, belts, hosiery, sunglasses, etc. Have some fun with this!
TIP: Be sure to choose accessories that are in scale with your overall proportions. If you have a larger frame, go for bigger earrings, necklaces, sunglasses, etc. that aren’t overpowered by your larger features.
5. Finish With a Handbag
The final step is to finish your outfit with a handbag. There are 2 things to consider:
- Consider the occasion. If it’s a formal event, go for a clutch or a structured handbag. If it’s a casual event, go for a slouchy bag in a casual fabric like leather, suede, or canvas. (The more structured the handbag, the dressier it looks.)
- Consider the color. Neutral colors will give you the most mileage, but brightly colored handbags can look unique and fashionable. If you decide to go for color, don’t worry about matching your bag to your shoes – that old rule doesn’t apply anymore.
Let’s see YOUR outfit!
And there you have it… A perfect outfit in 5 easy steps!
Now I’d love to see YOUR best outfit looks, so share a photo in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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hello girls
As for me I ALWAYS like to wear and make people guess as to is she hiding type, get it???These are photos of casual to dressy but not too dressy but all are I believe sexy, hope you like , what do you think?
maryellen
i always wear dresses mostly red i trie to hide my little belly i lost 50 pounds and have a little hanging belly and to hide that i use a hightaille slip and thats does the thing perfectle sorry for the bad english take care and bless you all
Thank you very much thats an idea a big hug and kisses for you
I have a hanging belly too, and my trick is the oldest one in the business: wear a corset and hip padding 😉
If nothing else will hide the belly, then a flashy belt will usually do the trick.
Absolutely gorgeous
I have a hanging belly too, and my trick is the oldest one in the business: wear a corset and hip padding 😉
If nothing else will hide the belly, then a flashy belt will usually do the trick.
Thank you Sandra for the advice!~ Bit of a hanging belly myself.. LOL Hugs to all!~
Hi Lucille,
How do you fold a scarf the way a woman does it ?
with all my love,
Joanna
There is an application for an android phone. it is on goggle play. How to tie a scarf. or try this site:
Thanks for the great advice! I’ll be shopping soon with another girlfriend and this will be helpful.
–Mandy
I ALWAYS try to dress for the occasion, even if it means dressing down a tiny bit (i.e. — 3 inch heels instead of 4, or a knee length skirt instead of a mini). I always dress on the conservative side so I can blend in and not stand out in a public setting. I love to add an accessory to complement what I’m wearing, such as a scarf, bolero jacket, a neck choker, necklace and earrings. I love getting dressed up too, but I never want to over dress. Love, Carollyn
Love your look Carollyn!~ Very fresh and wonderfully sexy!~
A woman after my own heart. This is great advice for those of us girls who are more concerned with passing and being accepted when we go out than with making a statement. We want to look attractive but also ‘fit in’ rather than ‘stick out’. But that’s just us. Well done, Carollyn. luv Rona
I ALWAYS try to dress for the occasion, and if I have any questions about what to wear, I under-dress a tiny bit (i.e.– I will wear 3 inch heels instead of 4 or a knee length skirt instead of a mini). I always dress to the conservative side so I don’t bring attention to myself in a public setting. I love to add accessories to a dress, slack, jeans or a sweater, such as a scarf or a neck choker or complementary necklace or earrings. Love, Carollyn
Thanks for the advice I tend to over dress for casual events
You look stunning Rikell!~ 🙂
So there I was yakking away with my friends and my best friend snapped me in a VERY RELAXED pose. I simply live for heels, the higher the better, the more outrageous the better. Not bad legs for a sixty-six-year-old ‘tart’ and it’s my own hair!